Had I known earlier, I could have become quite the actress, because it turns out that acting in public is what I've been doing
all this time. It took skirting a nervous breakdown and being tested for all kinds of physical symptoms, for years, before I, and I alone, figured it out.
I was literally burning out my brain from overuse. And as I have discovered, if your brain ain't working, ain't nothing working. I had giant hormone issues during menopause, severe problems with eating and body regulation, and it would have been really easy to get a diagnosis of depression, anxiety, eating disorder, and paranoia. I could have been stuffed with psychiatric drugs like a holiday turkey and it would have only made me worse.
I was prescribed a drug that kinda worked... for two weeks. My diagnostician was very helpful when she explained that I must be one of those for whom psychiatric drugs do not work; it is pretty common on the Autism Spectrum, she said. That alone was worth the trip; I am off that hook forever
Armed with this new knowledge, my self-care regimens work better than ever now that I can choose them with some scientific guidance. My 16 year marriage to an NT has had a lot of its stresses removed, because he thinks I make no sense sometimes, and I think he makes no sense sometimes, and
we are both right.
The best part was realizing
there is nothing wrong with me. In fact, I have been and continue to be flippin' awesome. This discovery has helped me dodge things that were never going to work, and concentrate on our little business which will (eventually) let me work at home. That's best for me and best for my future customers, too.
I revel in my Aspieness now. I hope it works the same way for you, should this turn out to be your path.