Nacho
Well-Known Member
Hello,
I am self-diagnosed aspie. Now, some weeks ago I actually told my parents everything, even though I knew my condition since some more time ago. However, since then my parents have been acting strange, and they've been cutting me off conversations, they have been laughing and joking around when I told them to please stop doing something that made me really anxious, in a bad way.
I found myself writing this message right now, I had to enclose myself in my bedroom after 1 hour and a half of talking with my mother. She was receptive about it, asking me my fears and where do my anxious behaviors come from. I was explaining everything to her perfectly until my father sit on the living room with us and joined the conversation. He told me to "please not have aspergers" and started aggressively chewing fried potatoes that made a lot of noise. I asked him to please stop, that I was starting to get very very nervous at that point; what he did was leaving the living room and continue eating his fried potatoes in the kitchen. He closed the door rather aggressively. After that, I left the living room, and I am bunkered right now in my comfort zone, my computer and this forum.
I feel really bad right now and think that my only help is my psychologist and this forum, which are the only places where I feel understood. I am in the verge of tears right now, but somehow writing everything helps a little.
Thank you for reading
I am self-diagnosed aspie. Now, some weeks ago I actually told my parents everything, even though I knew my condition since some more time ago. However, since then my parents have been acting strange, and they've been cutting me off conversations, they have been laughing and joking around when I told them to please stop doing something that made me really anxious, in a bad way.
I found myself writing this message right now, I had to enclose myself in my bedroom after 1 hour and a half of talking with my mother. She was receptive about it, asking me my fears and where do my anxious behaviors come from. I was explaining everything to her perfectly until my father sit on the living room with us and joined the conversation. He told me to "please not have aspergers" and started aggressively chewing fried potatoes that made a lot of noise. I asked him to please stop, that I was starting to get very very nervous at that point; what he did was leaving the living room and continue eating his fried potatoes in the kitchen. He closed the door rather aggressively. After that, I left the living room, and I am bunkered right now in my comfort zone, my computer and this forum.
I feel really bad right now and think that my only help is my psychologist and this forum, which are the only places where I feel understood. I am in the verge of tears right now, but somehow writing everything helps a little.
Thank you for reading