Nacho
Well-Known Member
Today was the first time my mother went to the association to talk with one of the psychologists about the things that were offered in it -musicotherapy, personal help, group chats...-.
Something my mother said to the psychologist really struck me and kind of depressed me. She pointed out that even when I have my diagnosis, she still doesn't believe I have an ASD because 'it's not clear on the outside that I have it', as some other people that have ASD are 'recognizable from afar'. That's what she said.
What I understood by that was that she saw people in the association that, simply by looking at them, she could see they had a disability. It's rather insulting what my mother said, and I really apologize if someone is disappointed by this, my mother disappointed me so I am on your side.
She says that looking at me, somebody that didn't know me wouldn't recognize that anything is wrong with me. I don't know what she means by this, but I interpret this as if I look like a normal person -we all do, but she couldn't tell if I had a disability or not-.
I think it's not correlated. She pointed out that I am 'too good-looking' to have a disability.
And this is extremely confusing and made me mad too.
I don't want to sound narcissistic or anything. But can't pretty people have problems too?
What's your opinion on all this?
Nacho
Something my mother said to the psychologist really struck me and kind of depressed me. She pointed out that even when I have my diagnosis, she still doesn't believe I have an ASD because 'it's not clear on the outside that I have it', as some other people that have ASD are 'recognizable from afar'. That's what she said.
What I understood by that was that she saw people in the association that, simply by looking at them, she could see they had a disability. It's rather insulting what my mother said, and I really apologize if someone is disappointed by this, my mother disappointed me so I am on your side.
She says that looking at me, somebody that didn't know me wouldn't recognize that anything is wrong with me. I don't know what she means by this, but I interpret this as if I look like a normal person -we all do, but she couldn't tell if I had a disability or not-.
I think it's not correlated. She pointed out that I am 'too good-looking' to have a disability.
And this is extremely confusing and made me mad too.
I don't want to sound narcissistic or anything. But can't pretty people have problems too?
What's your opinion on all this?
Nacho