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Does anyone feel like they can read a person within minutes of meeting them and make an instant decision of that person?
I don't know whether its just me or an aspie thing, but I seem to read people very quickly, I can tell if they're telling the truth, or being dishonest, and its not through visual things, its more by what people say and the way they say it, in most cases I'm right, to the point of annoyingly right (other peoples words not mine but not always 100%), and also to the point of telling that person, which of course causes lots of problems, but the way I see it, people shouldn't lie, my career is in music production, so I'm very tuned to sound, one of my problems is sensory overload, but with headphones I can control what I hear and i guess I'm just tuned that way so sound is very important to me, I'm wondering if I'm picking up the different tones in voices too?, anyway I was just wondering if it is just me or is it a common trait?
I don't know whether its just me or an aspie thing, but I seem to read people very quickly, I can tell if they're telling the truth, or being dishonest, and its not through visual things, its more by what people say and the way they say it, in most cases I'm right, to the point of annoyingly right (other peoples words not mine but not always 100%), and also to the point of telling that person, which of course causes lots of problems, but the way I see it, people shouldn't lie, my career is in music production, so I'm very tuned to sound, one of my problems is sensory overload, but with headphones I can control what I hear and i guess I'm just tuned that way so sound is very important to me, I'm wondering if I'm picking up the different tones in voices too?, anyway I was just wondering if it is just me or is it a common trait?