Anxiously waiting
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Hi all! I am fairly certain that I am on the spectrum and am awaiting testing to find out for sure. I have an OCD and GAD diagnosis and am in cognitive behavioral therapy and on Zoloft to manage. I am still very much overwhelmed despite that.
I started dating a wonderful ND man a couple of months ago and things recently screeched to a halt after I misinterpreted a text he sent as an invite to his house. I’ve been to the house before and would never just pop up. He said it was ok after he chastised me, but he has almost completely withdrawn since. He also asked for my address when he finally re-emerged and I think it may be to mail me something he borrowed. We haven’t spoken on the phone about it yet, so I don’t know. He assured me multiple times that it was a mistake and not to beat myself up and be embarrassed and now I know.
He used to text or call me daily, now there’s been a 4 day gap. Finally he reached out yesterday but that was for the address. I’m at a loss here because I don’t know why he would want my address other than to mail my stuff back so that he doesn’t have to see me. I stayed and we talked for 2 hours the other night, so I honestly thought it had been resolved. He’s very blunt and direct, so him not saying he was displeased and no longer interested at that time seems odd. He is a great guy. I don’t want to lose him.
I started dating a wonderful ND man a couple of months ago and things recently screeched to a halt after I misinterpreted a text he sent as an invite to his house. I’ve been to the house before and would never just pop up. He said it was ok after he chastised me, but he has almost completely withdrawn since. He also asked for my address when he finally re-emerged and I think it may be to mail me something he borrowed. We haven’t spoken on the phone about it yet, so I don’t know. He assured me multiple times that it was a mistake and not to beat myself up and be embarrassed and now I know.
He used to text or call me daily, now there’s been a 4 day gap. Finally he reached out yesterday but that was for the address. I’m at a loss here because I don’t know why he would want my address other than to mail my stuff back so that he doesn’t have to see me. I stayed and we talked for 2 hours the other night, so I honestly thought it had been resolved. He’s very blunt and direct, so him not saying he was displeased and no longer interested at that time seems odd. He is a great guy. I don’t want to lose him.