I am getting so annoyed at not stop gossips. That's all people ever talk about it I've had at all day in the taxi, eating dinner etc. Though when I tell people to stop I'm the bad guy.
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Thanks for the info.you'll discover if you sound preachy if you decide to tell them you DONT like gossip that you'll perceive a wall has gone up
i try to stay quiet and change the subject but people want to talk about themselves and they want you to agree if you DONT agree then they wont talk for as long
I find some people enjoy this stuff needs a better life. But it seems it entertaining for them for some reason?
I prefer facts and the real thing. Fake information is useless for me.My theory, still at the Research & Development stage, is that it is not "instincts" that make NTs so good at social interaction; at least, not as much as we might think. Because look at the tremendous amount of time and effort they put into it; which includes things like gossip and celebrity discussion.
I feel like that a lot.Yesterday, before I even started work, I went in to get a sandwich and sat down inside. My god, they don't half go on about all the drama. I feel like saying "JUST LEAVE ME TO EAT MY F**KING LUNCH IN PEACE!" Needless to say, I felt incredibly drained. Then I started work and they still wouldn't stop going on and on about other people.
a good place to eat takeaway is a church ideal aspie conditions very quiet if theres a lady chapel sit there it'll be really quietYesterday, before I even started work, I went in to get a sandwich and sat down inside. My god, they don't half go on about all the drama. I feel like saying "JUST LEAVE ME TO EAT MY F**KING LUNCH IN PEACE!" Needless to say, I felt incredibly drained. Then I started work and they still wouldn't stop going on and on about other people.
This for sure, lmaoFunny thing is, without fail, all the nasty stuff they say about others applies equally to them and you can bet when they are absent, it's the topic of gossip.
I remember this from going to Catholic school you could eat in the pray room or the peace garden if you needed a people break.w a good place to eat takeaway is a church ideal aspie conditions very quiet if theres a lady chapel sit there it'll be really quiet
I struggle so much to block people out however hard I try I can still here everyrhing.This for sure, lmao
I have to block out most people, it's so ridiculous.
But it's kind of funny when they get into very real fist fights over this ***** said this.