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I remember browsing wrong planet all the way back in 2007 but never joined. I made an account a couple years ago and hung around for a few months posting every now an then. Until the day I made a thread questioning the site owners "diagnosis" after listening to him speak in a youtube video and was instantly banned (passive aggressive much eh?).
I still stand by my original suspicion though... Alex just doesn't seem afflicted in any way and I know we're all different and how much symptoms vary, but I am not getting the vibe from him.
seems like a completely normal young man. The speech patterns (and I don"t mean monotone voice) and body language are usually the giveaways for an ASD always no matter how mild there is usually some subtle evidence of it when observing the person no matter how much therapy they're getting or have had. I am NOT seeing any of these behaviours with him.
I havnt and cant watch the above clip but I just need to say: actually, there are aspies that can appear "completely normal" for anything from 5mins up to several hours and in rare cases, even days at a time. Very very few people who meet me in real life peg anything as being 'wrong' until I run out of energy and have to drop my 'normal' façade and revert to being my aspie self until I can rest and get more energy to pretend to be normal again (re-energising can take me days, weeks even, after a big event of pretending to be 'normal').
I think this is due to A) having a mother who put A LOT of effort into training eye contact, speech etc from a very young age (we didnt know I had autism, but she knew something was 'wrong') and B) being female so socialisation (where one is forced to practice speaking and looking 'normal') was probably higher then it is for blokes (even though I hated people, it was something mum said I "had to do" and made me go to lots of classes for music or dance or art etc if I wanted to or not).
So yea, im an aspie, and I can present as 'normal' for a limited time; however it comes at a very high cost and can lay me up for days or weeks where I cant do anything but stay home, shuffle around the lounge and grunt occasionally etc. Im not agreeing or disagreeing or putting any thoughts forward on his diagnoses or lack there of as I havnt seen him, dont know him, havnt talked to his Drs etc, its not my place to make that call.
I havnt and cant watch the above clip but I just need to say: actually, there are aspies that can appear "completely normal" for anything from 5mins up to several hours and in rare cases, even days at a time. Very very few people who meet me in real life peg anything as being 'wrong' until I run out of energy and have to drop my 'normal' façade and revert to being my aspie self until I can rest and get more energy to pretend to be normal again (re-energising can take me days, weeks even, after a big event of pretending to be 'normal').
I think this is due to A) having a mother who put A LOT of effort into training eye contact, speech etc from a very young age (we didnt know I had autism, but she knew something was 'wrong') and B) being female so socialisation (where one is forced to practice speaking and looking 'normal') was probably higher then it is for blokes (even though I hated people, it was something mum said I "had to do" and made me go to lots of classes for music or dance or art etc if I wanted to or not).
So yea, im an aspie, and I can present as 'normal' for a limited time; however it comes at a very high cost and can lay me up for days or weeks where I cant do anything but stay home, shuffle around the lounge and grunt occasionally etc. Im not agreeing or disagreeing or putting any thoughts forward on his diagnoses or lack there of as I havnt seen him, dont know him, havnt talked to his Drs etc, its not my place to make that call.