Jorg
Well-Known Member
I didn't know if I should post this here or love/dating section. Anyway, I'm very confused and I don't know what the hell is happenning.
You'll see, I'm starting to get to now a female collegue here in university. In electronics engineering there aren't a lot of women, I think the guy-girl ratio is like 40 to 1 or something. It's been years since I worked with a female collegue and I feel weird, not because of her capacity but because I find her interesting, like...you know...I kind of like her, and it's even weird because it's been years since I had a female friend, the last friendships I started are from highscholl (like 10 years ago). Sure I've talked with some girls in university but working this close in groups is very different.
The plot gets worse because were working in groups of 4 people and 3 of us are guys, I know this guys for years and are very cool guys. I don't know if it is a evolutionary thing, an alpha male kind of behavior but I felt inside me like I should top these guys and be better than them, showing my leadership and features in front of her =/
Along the years I've experienced a lot of rejection and pain when it comes to dating woman and being romantically interested in someone, so I really know I have to take thins very slow and careful, develop a friendship and get to know people. But I guess or I fear my actions or mannering will show my "feelings" or give her the impression I find her interesting.
I'll definetly know I can't endangered the good work/"friend" relationship I Have with this 2 guys only for a girl, but this situation just gets me confused.
You'll see, I'm starting to get to now a female collegue here in university. In electronics engineering there aren't a lot of women, I think the guy-girl ratio is like 40 to 1 or something. It's been years since I worked with a female collegue and I feel weird, not because of her capacity but because I find her interesting, like...you know...I kind of like her, and it's even weird because it's been years since I had a female friend, the last friendships I started are from highscholl (like 10 years ago). Sure I've talked with some girls in university but working this close in groups is very different.
The plot gets worse because were working in groups of 4 people and 3 of us are guys, I know this guys for years and are very cool guys. I don't know if it is a evolutionary thing, an alpha male kind of behavior but I felt inside me like I should top these guys and be better than them, showing my leadership and features in front of her =/
Along the years I've experienced a lot of rejection and pain when it comes to dating woman and being romantically interested in someone, so I really know I have to take thins very slow and careful, develop a friendship and get to know people. But I guess or I fear my actions or mannering will show my "feelings" or give her the impression I find her interesting.
I'll definetly know I can't endangered the good work/"friend" relationship I Have with this 2 guys only for a girl, but this situation just gets me confused.