Libecht
Well-Known Member
Since puberty I've been blocking my emotions so constantly that it has become a habit that I can't even "unblock". For example, when I saw people living in horrible condition on the news, I simply chose not to feel sympathetic or sad, or in a worse case, when I watched a funny video alone, I found myself unconsciously resisting to smile/laugh, as if I wasn't allowed to. I feel like there is too much emotion bottled up in me, but when I tried to let it all out, such as in the form of crying, one second I was on the verge of tears, then the next second all emotion subsided and I felt nothing again. It's clear to me that my emotions were suppressed rather than inexistent because in some dreams I experienced very strong happiness, love, anger, grief, something I've never felt in real life. I think this "habit" has seriously hindered my ability to feel things, like enjoying a good movie or being saddened by tragic news, which made me indifferent and bored in life. I also find it hard to let go of or accept something bad that happened because there's no emotion for me to process. Any advice on how to be more open and honest to myself is appreciated.