Mars26
21 years old aspie
I recently have big argument with my best friend in which he told me what a burden I am for him. And no matter what he misunderstands or says incomprehensible (even to neurotypical people), he will always find a way to say that I just don't understand because I have autism. I know that I'm difficult and not because asperger but because my character. I am able to admit my mistakes and work on them. My only problem in this situation is that he argues about things in me (most often they are fictitious) that he is the one who actually has them. I try to tolerate it because he also forgave me a lot, but it is more and more difficult for me because I dont like hypocrisy. I realize that because of his family who do not believe in mental problems and are homophobic (we're both Bisexual), he may do it unknowingly. However, I am fed up with that when I tell him that something bothers me, but that I know that I also made mistakes, he ssid that I think that I am a Perfect Boy and that he is a dick. But when he points out to me my mistakes from the past (which I have worked on and which I dont commit anymore) and I will tell him that he is also not perfect (because who likes to be accused) he says that I cant accept criticism. The final straw was when he recently revealed accidentally that he doesnt consider his mistakes significant, but he always says that it is also his fault so that I would not be sad that I would always screw up something. What to do so that it does not bother me?