Dan Metevier
Curious Shrink
Great advice. My motto is that my job is to work myself out of a job. I also find that people, if they are listened to and understood, can most often find their own best solutions. I tend not to give advice because, after all, how the heck would I know what's best for you?Things not to do: Don't become a crutch to your client else when the time comes to end the therapeutic relationship the client will be without support.
Encourage the client to think about their issues in a safe way and to help them develop their own coping skillls.
Things that are helpful: Talk to the client on the level they set. If they talk on an adult level then treat them like an adult. Respect them.
Be a guide to them during the therapeutic relationship but don't get too close.
Thanks again.