nlancashire89
Active Member
Hi
I've joined this site because we are currently waiting for a diagnosis for our 3.5yr old son for Aspergers. While reading as much as I can about it, it sounds an awful lot like me too.
So one question I have is: In stressful situations I tend to pretty much shut down completely. The trigger could be something so minor, but it just pushes me over that edge. I will go to the bedroom, and just curl up and hide under the doona. When experiencing it, I feel VERY angry, very numb, almost feel sick to my stomach? I can't talk when this happens. I want to though. My husband will generally try and come in and give me a cuddle and chat, but I just can't stand being touched or looked at, I just want him to go away. This can last a few hours, and eventually I'll be alright, I'll just feel a little drained from it all. I feel like my brain is going a hundred miles an hour thinking. I end up thinking about strange things and scenarios - feels like im overreacting. This is really hard to explain. I'm wondering if this is normal with Aspies? Having shutdowns? Are there any tips to help the situation? Not so much to stop a shutdown happening, but maybe tips to help me communicate with my husband atleast. Inside my head I feel like im screaming to talk to him, but theres no energy to get the words out, or I don't know how to explain how I am feeling.
Thank you in advance for any responses. I'm sure I'll be getting to know you all much better over time, I have alot of questions, for myself, and my precious son.
I've joined this site because we are currently waiting for a diagnosis for our 3.5yr old son for Aspergers. While reading as much as I can about it, it sounds an awful lot like me too.
So one question I have is: In stressful situations I tend to pretty much shut down completely. The trigger could be something so minor, but it just pushes me over that edge. I will go to the bedroom, and just curl up and hide under the doona. When experiencing it, I feel VERY angry, very numb, almost feel sick to my stomach? I can't talk when this happens. I want to though. My husband will generally try and come in and give me a cuddle and chat, but I just can't stand being touched or looked at, I just want him to go away. This can last a few hours, and eventually I'll be alright, I'll just feel a little drained from it all. I feel like my brain is going a hundred miles an hour thinking. I end up thinking about strange things and scenarios - feels like im overreacting. This is really hard to explain. I'm wondering if this is normal with Aspies? Having shutdowns? Are there any tips to help the situation? Not so much to stop a shutdown happening, but maybe tips to help me communicate with my husband atleast. Inside my head I feel like im screaming to talk to him, but theres no energy to get the words out, or I don't know how to explain how I am feeling.
Thank you in advance for any responses. I'm sure I'll be getting to know you all much better over time, I have alot of questions, for myself, and my precious son.