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[BradT]

Hi, my name is Brad, I'm 28 years old and I have aspergers syndeome. I go to college and I'm studying to be an accountant. My therapist said I have high functioning aspergers. The reason I was diagnosed with my aspergers is because of my low social skills. Because I have this disorder, I don't like socializing with anyone. I don't go out much, I only go to college and work out, it's the same routine everyday. I only have my family and extended family, I had friends in high school, but I don't talk to them much. I feel like I'm not liked for some reason, I don't know if it's in my head or the aspergers telling me this. Has anyone experienced or is experiencing what I'm going through or something similar?

 

[Elemental]

Hi @BradT Welcome to Central
I think it's quite common for us on spectrum to feel detached or removed from other people a lot of the time, or at least not to feel "connections" easily.

 

[SusanLR]

Hi Brad, welcome.
Sounds like you are very high functionig and have the ability to connect a bit more than myself. I never had friends truly. I dated some after 25, but, it was always short lived and even though I felt in love with two of my relationships I didn't want to marry or change my lifestyle. My only true bonds were with my parents.

 

[Danny 74]

Helloooo brad.t.......!

 

[xudo]

Welcome

 

[Nitro]

 

[Hartley]

Hi there and welcome to aspie central.

 

[tree]

 

[Keigan]

Welcome.

Same routines, same foods, few friends, prefer to stay at home and not be near the public or interact with the public.

 

[ZebraAutismo]

Welcome. I also struggle with people and social interaction.

 

[BradT]

Is it hard to find love when you have aspergers? I've always hugged girls, I'm 28 and never had sex and never kissed a girl yet, mainly because I'm also shy. Some girls have said I was cute even, so I don't know what's wrong with me why I'm so afraid to get into a serious relationship. I sound pathetic huh?

 

[BradT]

Have any of you experienced what I have experienced with this disorder?

 

[Streetwise]

happy 29th birthday

Hi, my name is Brad, I'm 28 years old and I have aspergers syndeome. I go to college and I'm studying to be an accountant. My therapist said I have high functioning aspergers. The reason I was diagnosed with my aspergers is because of my low social skills. Because I have this disorder, I don't like socializing with anyone. I don't go out much, I only go to college and work out, it's the same routine everyday. I only have my family and extended family, I had friends in high school, but I don't talk to them much. I feel like I'm not liked for some reason, I don't know if it's in my head or the aspergers telling me this. Has anyone experienced or is experiencing what I'm going through or something similar?

 

[Alaska]

Hi, my name is Brad, I'm 28 years old and I have aspergers syndeome. I go to college and I'm studying to be an accountant. My therapist said I have high functioning aspergers. The reason I was diagnosed with my aspergers is because of my low social skills. Because I have this disorder, I don't like socializing with anyone. I don't go out much, I only go to college and work out, it's the same routine everyday. I only have my family and extended family, I had friends in high school, but I don't talk to them much. I feel like I'm not liked for some reason, I don't know if it's in my head or the aspergers telling me this. Has anyone experienced or is experiencing what I'm going through or something similar?

Hi Brad T. Welcome to AC!!!

You came to the right place. So many of us have gone through the same stuff that you have that it is a cliche' on this site. There are a lot of socially inept, but nice people on this site. You sound as if you will fit right in.

 

[Streetwise]

Hi, my name is Brad, I'm 28 years old and I have aspergers syndeome. I go to college and I'm studying to be an accountant. My therapist said I have high functioning aspergers. The reason I was diagnosed with my aspergers is because of my low social skills. Because I have this disorder, I don't like socializing with anyone. I don't go out much, I only go to college and work out, it's the same routine everyday. I only have my family and extended family, I had friends in high school, but I don't talk to them much. I feel like I'm not liked for some reason, I don't know if it's in my head or the aspergers telling me this. Has anyone experienced or is experiencing what I'm going through or something similar?

can i ask if you were half of a loving relationship would you want to be responsible for a child ?!.sexual intercourse is near solely designed to reproduce another human

 

[Molly]

Hi @BradT welcome to the forum from an fellow Aspie.

 

[BradT]

can i ask if you were half of a loving relationship would you want to be responsible for a child ?!.sexual intercourse is near solely designed to reproduce another human

No.