Ah, I think this became a fear of mine because we have established a pattern of emailing each other over a long period, and I guess NT's are a bit uncomfortable when things change, too, especially without warning. And especially NT's with anxiety issues.
Well, most of us on the spectrum will tell you that we're no fan of change in general.
Though interestingly enough, at least from my personal perspective, abruptly not talking would not constitute "change" to me. Because for me, when I have nothing to say I don't speak. That's a default behavior for me.
Tragically though with all of my relationships with NT females, at the time none of them or myself had a clue that I could be on the spectrum of autism.
With no explanation or course of action to take, all of my relationships were doomed to fail. Which is why self-awareness is so critical for everyone on the spectrum. Apart from whatever NTs can learn about us to possibly adapt and happily coexist accordingly.
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