SignOfLazarus
Pbbt.
I'm sorry Suzanne, but your husband is just generally wrong in interactions you report between the two of you. His [inappropriate and horribly expressed] frustration probably has nothing to do with NT vs Aspie stuff.
It's something he seems to have latched onto so he can offer an excuse for the way he treats you. It's not reasonable, ok, respectful, fair or really humane.
He kind of doesn't know what he's talking about, most of the time, unless it's regarding his misplaced and unkind general pissiness with you. And that's not about you, that's about him- issues he has.
And yeah, he's wrong here.
Take care of yourself. <3
It's something he seems to have latched onto so he can offer an excuse for the way he treats you. It's not reasonable, ok, respectful, fair or really humane.
He kind of doesn't know what he's talking about, most of the time, unless it's regarding his misplaced and unkind general pissiness with you. And that's not about you, that's about him- issues he has.
And yeah, he's wrong here.
Take care of yourself. <3