I'm looking for some ideas how to help a young undiagnosed child who though i'm not doctor I believe experiences Asperger's syndrome. He is not and will not become diagnosed because the other adults in his life believe the behaviors he has are defiant tantrums. I'm not convinced of that and am done trying to convince them of that so now I just want some people who have grown up misunderstood what were something's that stand out that helped you. This little boy is super book smart - at four he was reading very fluently at five now he's adding, subtracting, multiplying. The social piece is a huge struggle for him; change blows him out of the water things that appear little to outsiders set him into emotional turmoil like pants not feeling right that day (even if he's worn them before and been fine). He is headed to public school kindergarten this September and I want to try in the next few months help him somehow even if it's a little.