Today my husband was taking me to visit my brother. I had borrowed two DVDs from him quite a few months ago now and the last time I saw him he asked if I could return his DVDs to him so I said I will.
So a couple of days before today I found the DVDs and placed them on the arm of the chair ready to take when I see my brother.
But my husband must have moved them, because I forgot all about them, then today when my brother asked if I had the DVDs I suddenly realised I had forgotten them.
I had forgotten them because they were moved out of sight. If they had remained on the arm of the chair I would have remembered to bring them.
I wish I had told my husband not to move them, or to tell him the reason they were placed there, but I forgot, as usually he leaves my stuff alone (not because I don't like my stuffed touched, as I don't mind my stuff being touched, in fact I don't even notice when my stuff is touched, just like I didn't notice the DVDs had been moved).
But if things are put away I will forget about them. If I lived alone I would probably have all the objects I need to remember scattered around on the couch, the table or the floor, otherwise I won't remember them. My therapist said it was a classic ADHD symptom. He wasn't wrong lol.
Anyway, does anyone else here forget things if they're out of sight? Most people like things to be tidied away but to me that is chaotic. And don't suggest I write things down to remind myself haha - I've done that before and forgot to look at the note!
So a couple of days before today I found the DVDs and placed them on the arm of the chair ready to take when I see my brother.
But my husband must have moved them, because I forgot all about them, then today when my brother asked if I had the DVDs I suddenly realised I had forgotten them.
I had forgotten them because they were moved out of sight. If they had remained on the arm of the chair I would have remembered to bring them.
I wish I had told my husband not to move them, or to tell him the reason they were placed there, but I forgot, as usually he leaves my stuff alone (not because I don't like my stuffed touched, as I don't mind my stuff being touched, in fact I don't even notice when my stuff is touched, just like I didn't notice the DVDs had been moved).
But if things are put away I will forget about them. If I lived alone I would probably have all the objects I need to remember scattered around on the couch, the table or the floor, otherwise I won't remember them. My therapist said it was a classic ADHD symptom. He wasn't wrong lol.
Anyway, does anyone else here forget things if they're out of sight? Most people like things to be tidied away but to me that is chaotic. And don't suggest I write things down to remind myself haha - I've done that before and forgot to look at the note!