I have a set of morals/rules/personal code that I follow in life, when dealing with others. In my experience I feel as though characteristics of honesty and fairness have had more negative consequences than positive. I have been repeatedly punished/admonished/accosted/set backwards in life for being honest and acting in fairness. While feeling bitter about the lost opportunities and chances I am beginning to see why NT folks are so guarded with words and actions.
I feel like I need to evolve into a dishonest person with a more “cutthroat” style to make it in life, or at least tread water and survive with lodgings.
Do you struggle with negative consequences for following your code?
I feel like I need to evolve into a dishonest person with a more “cutthroat” style to make it in life, or at least tread water and survive with lodgings.
Do you struggle with negative consequences for following your code?