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Recent content by theblitz6794

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    How do you handle guilt trips?

    I used to rely on scripts for conversations. That might be your problem. I forced myself to go out and learn how to talk to people. Then I went further and did it high, which caused me to think a little deeper about conversing. Anyways, that's your problem really. The second someone deviates...
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    Hitchcraftdating.com - Dating Coaches

    I agree completely. I posted RSD because they do their pickup based on that exact fact (women are people too).
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    Hitchcraftdating.com - Dating Coaches

    Hmm, maybe I misread the point of this thread. Yeah RSD is very much pickup oriented
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    Aspergers and psychoanalytic ideas

    Well frankly I'm obsessed with psychoanalysis itself. Jungian theory, and by that I mean "pure" Jungian theory (MBTI and the like stray away from what Jung was trying to get it; John Beebe is a good one who follows up on Jung). I'm digging as deep as I possibly can into this subject about how...
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    Hitchcraftdating.com - Dating Coaches

    I recommend Real Social Dynamics, largely because the cofounder is a "former aspie"/an aspie who learned social skills at a depth that NTs know them. He basically says he can keep up with or surpass almost everyone on the street socially but he has to stay in practice and his mindset...
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    Aspie-Aspie meeting/flirting

    Well we never hung out outside of school except once to study, although it degenerated (for the good) into a very long 3 hour life talk. And after that, we sort of had this dynamic where we kept everything surface level and came up with excuses (or legitimate reasons...I don't actually know) and...
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    Symmetry, balance, and Goldilocks zones

    Perhaps this goes hand in hand with my focus on a physics degree. I've been obsessed with symmetry and asymmetrical balance my whole life. I much prefer things to be in even numbers, if that makes sense, but even numbers like 14, which is a group of 2s divided by an odd, bother me a little...
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    How do you handle guilt trips?

    I'm so used to guilt trips that I'm very willing to take them head on. Suppose someone wants me to do "X" for me and I am justified in not wanting to. First I come up with legitimate reasons (sometimes with a bit of a sugarcoat if the reasons run inappropriately deep). If they press, I press...
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    Aspies and Sarcasm

    Something about how sarcasm veils to some degree the true emotions and impressions behind what I say makes me think I sarcast in an aspie way. Oh, I have a terrible time reading other people's sarcasm, and my trouble isn't picking up on the sarcasm but being absolutely sure it's sarcasm and...
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    Aspies and Sarcasm

    Disclaimer: I'm still trying to understand myself and I'm only 20 so apologies if I'm making it difficult to bear with me here. I've always stood out from others (presuming I'm on it of course) on the spectrum due to sarcasm. I sarcast like a group of INTJs (well, I am an INTJ though). Anyhow...
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    Aspie-Aspie meeting/flirting

    First post here woo! I met a girl who's obviously on the spectrum (although ASD, aspie, ect she either wasn't diagnosed or didn't want to get too into the subject so she didn't say but I can cold read this kind of thing rather effectively) and the...whatever we have has me all confused. I'm...
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