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Who is your idol/role model?

Balkan1996

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I'd say mine is Nikola Tesla.

Although I don't have a lot of interest in science field, I always admired his workaholic spirit and his creativity. I even adopted some of his ways from biography.
 
Most of the people that I look up to are fictional. Usually they are characters who I can relate to on some degree, really admire, or have learned a lot from. As far as real people though, most of them are authors, artists, or involved in the film business.

Some fictional examples: Bruce Wayne/Batman, Sherlock Holmes, Doctor Who, Kristofferson (from Fantastic Mr. Fox), Hamlet, Cheshire Cat, The Mad Hatter, and the like.

Real world examples: George Orwell, William Shakespeare, Franz Kafka, David Tennant, Christopher Nolan, Vincent Van Gogh, and so on.

There are many more, but I just cannot remember them right now.
 
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I haven't really had one single person in adulthood. But when younger always looked up to the characters Charlton Heston portrayed.

He was controversial at the end of his life with the NRA thing, but earlier on also was a great barrier breaker with race relations and strong opponent of blacklisting. He also brought more realism and 'greyness' to his roles then was typical for his time, often having a jaded and openly self serving side, even though he typically was in 'heroic' roles.
 
I admire Albert Einstein for going from rejection to mastery of his field. I also get inspiration from Stephen Hawking.
 
No idols. I'm an atheist.

As for admiration, I'd have to say people like TR, J. S. Mill, MaglIabechi… people who loved reading as much as I do.
 
For me it's Stephen Hawkin as well as he has overcome seemingly insurmountable difficulties to achieve what he has. He also has a sense of humour about it. When he was announced onto the stage the other week as 'The only man in the room more intelligent than Stephen Fry', he came on and replied, 'and better looking'. Priceless!
 
I opened this thread planning on posting Tesla. he is one of my biggest heros, A man with a great spirit, just wanting to share his inventions, didnt seek revenge like Edison, and just wanted to make the world a better place.
 
I opened this thread planning on posting Tesla. he is one of my biggest heros, A man with a great spirit, just wanting to share his inventions, didnt seek revenge like Edison, and just wanted to make the world a better place.

Yeah, and he was probably an Aspie. :)
 
People I have admired and who have influenced my life would be...
Lao Tzu, Joseph Campbell, Carl Jung, Socrates, Rumi, Sherpa Tenzing Norgay, Thubten Gyatso (13th Dalai Lama), George Carlin, Nikola Tesla, and my dad.

There are more but my mind is wandering now.
 
Idol? I have none. As quickly as I can put someone on a pedestal, I am just as quick to knock them right off it if need be.

That said...I admire those souls of kind and gentle nature. Carl Sagan because I love science and I love the television series he did, which was so gentle yet wondrous and obviously full of love for humanity and human life. Fred Rogers, because he taught acceptance, both of one's self and of others, and kindness and love; he will always live in my heart.
 
How about Martin Luthor King, Nelson Mandella, Mahatma Ghandi, Guatama Buddha, Jesus Christ.. I'd've surely said Einstein, Sagan, Hawking and my dad.. all those who see Mankind, not Skin or Race or Status, as our future.
 
Mick Avory of The Kinks is my role model. He's a real Sweet Pea 95% of the time. He's the original Kink that I'm the most like, and I want to be sweet and gentle like him. My parents weren't the best role models for me during my formative years. They yelled and spanked and I've decided that I needed a better example to follow in Late 2009.
 
I never really had one idol or ultimate role model. It's not always in who they are anyway, but in what you take from them. I did learn a few things along the way though, so let's see:

Courtney Love got me into the habit of having breakfast, Keith Richards into the habit of eating fruit.

Andy Warhol taught me it's work and discipline and not just inspiration.

Steve Jobs taught me to say no in order to focus.

Allen Ginsberg and his Dr. Hicks taught me not to be afraid to follow my heart's desires, Jack Kerouac that it's ok to be confused and fragile.

Hunter Thompson taught me to take pride in being perceived as weird and to confuse and take it further when attacked by the conformist's expectancy to be apologetic about it.

John Lennon taught me that time enjoyed wasting, is not wasted time (although that quote had already been around for quite a while.)

Charles Bukowski taught me it's not always in what we make or produce or have to show, but in how we live our lives.

Flight of the Conchords (and a slew of other comedians, but it was really during the first viewing of that show that the realization finally set in) to not take things too seriously and to always remember to take the piss out of myself and my own failures.

Serge Gainsbourg taught me there's nothing wrong with a bit of flat out commercialism and being a scumbag at times.

Pete Doherty (and his mom) taught me to see the darkness and misery of life as an experience and that as long as I can write, I'll always be ok.

Now, it's all very much still a work in progress, but they are there, some in my mind, some in my heart, guiding me along.
 
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The doctors who saved my father's life when he had cancer.

The previous headmaster of my school who has supported countless of disabled students. Every kid at the school admire and love him.
 

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