Much of my life has early on, been a naive and honest approach to life, people and events. I've recently looked up and taken tests about honesty and lying. And how to tell the difference between someone who lies and someone who's honest.
Although I've consistently told the truth in my life, not bluntly, carefully, dependent on the circumstances, it seems that I have given off the wrong signals.
Apparently, police and interrogators and psychologists think that:
People who lie preface something they are about to say with: "To be honest or to tell the truth."
Liars blink too much when they are talking.
(I blink too much, women in general blink more than average)
Liars give lots of detail, prefacing things with dates, time, names.
Liars respond to questions asked by repeating the question. In order to give them more time to make up a lie.
(Often repeat a question asked to give myself time to think)
Liars make direct eye contact and look away when they are lying.
(In that kind of situation, I would force myself to make eye contact and I look away when I can't do it anymore)
So the criteria for lying seems the opposite for me, it greatly concerns me that I wouldn't be believed under that kind of rigid system. Which can't be applied to everyone.
How would you fare with these kinds of perceptions of how to spot a liar?
Although I've consistently told the truth in my life, not bluntly, carefully, dependent on the circumstances, it seems that I have given off the wrong signals.
Apparently, police and interrogators and psychologists think that:
People who lie preface something they are about to say with: "To be honest or to tell the truth."
Liars blink too much when they are talking.
(I blink too much, women in general blink more than average)
Liars give lots of detail, prefacing things with dates, time, names.
Liars respond to questions asked by repeating the question. In order to give them more time to make up a lie.
(Often repeat a question asked to give myself time to think)
Liars make direct eye contact and look away when they are lying.
(In that kind of situation, I would force myself to make eye contact and I look away when I can't do it anymore)
So the criteria for lying seems the opposite for me, it greatly concerns me that I wouldn't be believed under that kind of rigid system. Which can't be applied to everyone.
How would you fare with these kinds of perceptions of how to spot a liar?
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