I'm not sure if I am disappointed in myself, creeped out, or just feeling alone in this. This morning I got two pieces of quite bad news. The next thing I know, it's the afternoon, I was profoundly confused, slowed down, mentally fogged, and vaguely aware that something was very wrong. I was in a shutdown. Due to disassociation. I had no idea if I had eaten, drank anything, or even gone pee today. It felt like being held under the sea in a groggy nightmare where there's a vague sense of urgency. I wasn't able to do much at all. Little awareness of anything at all beyond my own fogged-out inner world. No idea of my own body's needs, even. No ability to do anything at all, beyond just be. SCARY.
I eventually did manage to make myself get a drink, go potty, and get a small bit of food. Then, I walked for 5 minutes in fresh air with my dog. I stayed quiet in the house afterward. I'm doing better now.
How can someone be so fragile? This has happened, off and on, my whole life. Lots of amnesia from shutdowns, even as a little kid. Can anything make us more resilient? Even being in a cafe with glare from windows, background chatter, and bustling servers (simple sensory stuff) can make shutdown start for me. Can anything increase resilience?
When this lasts a few weeks instead of a few hours, it can make running errands on foot and crossing streets dangerous, and apparently, adults with ASD, like kids, actually do wander. I'd love to hear if anyone's found a way to become more shutdown-proof!
I eventually did manage to make myself get a drink, go potty, and get a small bit of food. Then, I walked for 5 minutes in fresh air with my dog. I stayed quiet in the house afterward. I'm doing better now.
How can someone be so fragile? This has happened, off and on, my whole life. Lots of amnesia from shutdowns, even as a little kid. Can anything make us more resilient? Even being in a cafe with glare from windows, background chatter, and bustling servers (simple sensory stuff) can make shutdown start for me. Can anything increase resilience?
When this lasts a few weeks instead of a few hours, it can make running errands on foot and crossing streets dangerous, and apparently, adults with ASD, like kids, actually do wander. I'd love to hear if anyone's found a way to become more shutdown-proof!