LittleFiddle05
Well-Known Member
So, last week my psychologist said something that really got me thinking, and I'm curious to hear what others have experienced.
I've had a few traumatizing experiences this year (most notably, finding my roommate after she committed suicide). It took weeks to tell my psychologist everything, but I finally did; after finishing, she listed 6 things that she thinks we'll need to address; I asked "Okay, how do we address them?" Two weeks later, she brought up that conversation and said it had really thrown her off; she said that I respond to therapy differently than anyone else she's ever treated. Apparently, usually after a traumatic event, the patient wants to talk about it every week, and every week she guides them to reframe the event to alter the memory; the facts stay the same, but the emotions become less harmful and more empowering. She described it as a normalizing process. Except, apparently the weird thing about me is, I don't volunteer emotional details; despite the amount of time it took to explain everything, my explanations remained factual; sometimes she'd ask about emotions and I'd answer quickly, but it seemed mostly irrelevant. She said that from what she's seeing and hearing, it seems like I don't have strong emotional ties to the facts; I can analyze my reactions, analyze what happened, I'm good at explaining what I feel if asked... but when I remember an event, emotions seem hardly relevant. Because of this she's not quite sure how to proceed, because she's not sure her usual mode of treatment would actually make any difference for me. She doesn't know whether it's an Aspie thing, or just a me thing.
Overall, I'm just curious; for those here who see a psychologist, counselor, etc, do you naturally incorporate emotions into your stories, or do you need to be prompted to give such information?
I've had a few traumatizing experiences this year (most notably, finding my roommate after she committed suicide). It took weeks to tell my psychologist everything, but I finally did; after finishing, she listed 6 things that she thinks we'll need to address; I asked "Okay, how do we address them?" Two weeks later, she brought up that conversation and said it had really thrown her off; she said that I respond to therapy differently than anyone else she's ever treated. Apparently, usually after a traumatic event, the patient wants to talk about it every week, and every week she guides them to reframe the event to alter the memory; the facts stay the same, but the emotions become less harmful and more empowering. She described it as a normalizing process. Except, apparently the weird thing about me is, I don't volunteer emotional details; despite the amount of time it took to explain everything, my explanations remained factual; sometimes she'd ask about emotions and I'd answer quickly, but it seemed mostly irrelevant. She said that from what she's seeing and hearing, it seems like I don't have strong emotional ties to the facts; I can analyze my reactions, analyze what happened, I'm good at explaining what I feel if asked... but when I remember an event, emotions seem hardly relevant. Because of this she's not quite sure how to proceed, because she's not sure her usual mode of treatment would actually make any difference for me. She doesn't know whether it's an Aspie thing, or just a me thing.
Overall, I'm just curious; for those here who see a psychologist, counselor, etc, do you naturally incorporate emotions into your stories, or do you need to be prompted to give such information?