If there is a way to change the fear of dying, I've never found it.
It's going to happen and there's no way to know what it will feel like or what, if anything, happens
to your consciousness or experiences afterward.
No matter what your cultural beliefs or what science has so far found, not even those who say they
remember things they experienced that have had NDEs.
The fact is without truly knowing, it is the facing of that unkown that is scary.
But, living can be torture too, depending on what you go through.
If it becomes unbearable, I always said since death is inevitable, you can say stop the world
I want to get off. It's a matter of choice.
I never understood why someone like Jack Kavorkian was illegal, but, an organisation such
as HOSPICE is ok.
They can take you in and remove all life support which results in death from dehydration and starvation
within 3 days. And sometimes it isn't even the person's choice. It is the choice of the POA.
I've seen it done.
They say it is ok when death is inevitable. Again, it is to all of us.
Hello, SusanLR, nice to bump into you again.
I tend to think that most of us are afraid
of death.
I also tend to believe that most of us are afraid of
not being afraid of death.
I think on this, at times, and wonder what my own experience will be.
At those times, I don't consider any
"after". I usually concern myself only with what I may be relatively certain of experiencing, namely, of going from one capable of experiencing, to one that cannot
or does not.
It tends to be what the awareness of that
transition will be like.
I have found that the frightening aspect
is closely related to the consideration of losing, or having taken away, everything
and everyone I have ever cared about, indeed every single experience, while simultaneously losing the ability
to
experience.
While this is still unsettling, I find that it is less horrifying than an amorphous, unexplored unknown. I am aware that my own undeveloped, uninvestigated fears
created a much deeper horror than I now feel when contemplating death.
I have come to understand, more and more,
that my fear is rooted in my consciousness,
memories, and awareness ceasing to be, than the final failure of my body---my life---
ceasing to be.
While I still feel fear, at most times, utter
horror has lost it's grasp.
I fully believe that living, I could experience
worse things than death.
I digress.
My purpose here was to highlight my
previous post in this thread, wherein I
recommend
The Tibetan Book Of The Dead.
It illustrates likely thoughts and feelings
of one dying, or close to death.
I found it to provide much food for
thought on the subject, and to be very
instrumental in easing my fears of death.
If you are not averse to studying,
or looking into the cause(s) of your fears,
I highly recommend it.