JuniperBug
Rainbow Bird of Friendliness
Sorry if I'm digging up an old topic!
I'm considering the topic of who should I tell bout my Aspergers and who should I hide it from. I don't have many friends and the people I'm closest to are those I work with. It feels weird to have this secret, especially because I feel that it explains so much about me. But I always trust too much too soon and it's really hard to pinpoint who to share this information with, especially at work, where I don't really want my boss getting wind.
After I received my diagnosis last month I've told 5 people.
My parents were dismissive and insisted they 'probably had it too' they were unwilling to learn more.
My good friend back in the US thought it didn't fit at first but was ultimately accepting and acted as if nothing had changed.
My closest friend here (at work) was a bit dismissive in a hippie sort of 'everyone has their own issues and journey' thing.
My partner was fully supportive and even happy for the clarity - the best possible recipient
Do you find that, upon telling friends, anything changes? Does your relationship get stronger or weirder? Do you feel relieved to have told? What responses have you received? Have you ever regretted telling anyone?
Thanks for reading and answering!
I'm considering the topic of who should I tell bout my Aspergers and who should I hide it from. I don't have many friends and the people I'm closest to are those I work with. It feels weird to have this secret, especially because I feel that it explains so much about me. But I always trust too much too soon and it's really hard to pinpoint who to share this information with, especially at work, where I don't really want my boss getting wind.
After I received my diagnosis last month I've told 5 people.
My parents were dismissive and insisted they 'probably had it too' they were unwilling to learn more.
My good friend back in the US thought it didn't fit at first but was ultimately accepting and acted as if nothing had changed.
My closest friend here (at work) was a bit dismissive in a hippie sort of 'everyone has their own issues and journey' thing.
My partner was fully supportive and even happy for the clarity - the best possible recipient
Do you find that, upon telling friends, anything changes? Does your relationship get stronger or weirder? Do you feel relieved to have told? What responses have you received? Have you ever regretted telling anyone?
Thanks for reading and answering!