The support question made me think of this because under no circumstances am I able to ask anyone for help or for a favor or anything. I would probably lay here and die before I could calls someone to help me. Part of the reason I have so many back problems now is because all my years in nursing. I would help anyone else pulling someone up in bed, picking someone off the floor, moving them from bed to wheelchair, but I wouldn't ask for help for myself, I'd just do what I could to do it myself.
I'm still that way. I have turned my apartment into an apartment, starting out as a basement/garage. My son did build a nice big bathroom and replace the garage door with French doors. Other than that I put down the floor, textured and painted all the walls, some wall paper, molding, ceiling, even hung small cabinets on the wall for my kitchen. (Oh he also installed the kitchen sink). They always fuss and say one of the boys could have helped. I'm not skilled and have fallen off ladders, hit myself in the head with a hammer and poked my eye with a screwdriver, but it's easier and better than asking for help.
Asking for help is as difficult as accepting a compliment. Just don't know how to do either and can not get myself to ask. And, yes, even when injured I can not ask for help. I just figure out a way to do it myself. It seems dumb, but I've cut myself accidently while at work and try to get to the bathroom to wrap it up before anyone sees, but someone always tends to follow the blood drops and finds me. I'm fine - go away.
I've never been able to scream either. Like scream for help - can't do it.
I'm still that way. I have turned my apartment into an apartment, starting out as a basement/garage. My son did build a nice big bathroom and replace the garage door with French doors. Other than that I put down the floor, textured and painted all the walls, some wall paper, molding, ceiling, even hung small cabinets on the wall for my kitchen. (Oh he also installed the kitchen sink). They always fuss and say one of the boys could have helped. I'm not skilled and have fallen off ladders, hit myself in the head with a hammer and poked my eye with a screwdriver, but it's easier and better than asking for help.
Asking for help is as difficult as accepting a compliment. Just don't know how to do either and can not get myself to ask. And, yes, even when injured I can not ask for help. I just figure out a way to do it myself. It seems dumb, but I've cut myself accidently while at work and try to get to the bathroom to wrap it up before anyone sees, but someone always tends to follow the blood drops and finds me. I'm fine - go away.
I've never been able to scream either. Like scream for help - can't do it.