I think for me it would be how I see things. While driving through the Canadian Rockies everyone else in the van questioned how is it that I am the one spotting animals off in the distance and I'm the one driving. Of course, at the time I was like, I don't know.
My daughter in law and I love going to Goodwill and second hand stores looking for new projects and she's always asking "how did you spot that thing on bottom of a pile?"
As we got to discussing and comparing how we see things I realized that I seen things differently than she did (she's NT). The animals popped out at me because they were a change in a pattern per se. When looking at things outside of driving my vision is focused in a smaller area than hers allowing me to see more detail.
Of course, this has fall backs, too, because when I'm talking to someone I look into one eye and I don't see the face. I learned to look into eyes during my speech therapy and they had me practice having staring contests with my brother and I got really good. Maybe too good because I've have people have to look away from me before. It probably feels like a staring contest. But when I look at something I don't see the things around it and when there's the tiniest break in a pattern or scenery it gets my attention. I used to always wonder when I was driving to work why I always looked at the same things. I even tested myself once and deliberately looked in the other direction and for a second I felt lost cause it was not familiar at all. The same things would stand out to me every time, I guess.
But I like this trait now that I know it's not how everyone sees things because I AM able to pick things out better and see things they don't. They see a boring whole and miss the things I see.
My daughter in law and I love going to Goodwill and second hand stores looking for new projects and she's always asking "how did you spot that thing on bottom of a pile?"
As we got to discussing and comparing how we see things I realized that I seen things differently than she did (she's NT). The animals popped out at me because they were a change in a pattern per se. When looking at things outside of driving my vision is focused in a smaller area than hers allowing me to see more detail.
Of course, this has fall backs, too, because when I'm talking to someone I look into one eye and I don't see the face. I learned to look into eyes during my speech therapy and they had me practice having staring contests with my brother and I got really good. Maybe too good because I've have people have to look away from me before. It probably feels like a staring contest. But when I look at something I don't see the things around it and when there's the tiniest break in a pattern or scenery it gets my attention. I used to always wonder when I was driving to work why I always looked at the same things. I even tested myself once and deliberately looked in the other direction and for a second I felt lost cause it was not familiar at all. The same things would stand out to me every time, I guess.
But I like this trait now that I know it's not how everyone sees things because I AM able to pick things out better and see things they don't. They see a boring whole and miss the things I see.