Jorg
Well-Known Member
Hi, I rarelly post stuff this time or for the past months but if you have read some of my previous thread (it might be in this section) you probably remember I posted about a friend of mine who was inlove of a guy who is kind of a jerk, and that's not only my opinion it was hers at the time.
Anyway, just to sumarize, she often told me she went to sleep crying, one time they had a fight about a money she lend him, and to make things worse the guy has a daughter from another relationship (since their money fight was around novermber I guess the guy needed money for the child support from that month.)
Anyway, yesterday she texted me and showed me a commercial pregnancy test she did, and it looks like she may be pregnant. We have been talking and apparently she's going to go to the doctor and ask for a profesional test.
Meanwhile, today she showed me some texts/screens of a conversation between she and the guy, and apparently the guy became an assh...le when she told him she was going to the doctor, then like a 5yo...nope, not even a 5yo kid does that, he said he wasn't scared but ask her "why she didn't told him to use protection", like if was her fault to get her pregnant. I know I know, as I was in anger with how the guy behave I told my friend she was responsible too, she had to demand this guy to use protection, I mean, I may be not very good socially in that area but it is common sense to use protection if you're going to have sex...
Anyway, at least yesterday she apologyzed to me because she know how much I care for her and didn't want me to be in this position. I just needed to let out my "rant", thanks for reading and if you want, leave your thoughts.
Anyway, just to sumarize, she often told me she went to sleep crying, one time they had a fight about a money she lend him, and to make things worse the guy has a daughter from another relationship (since their money fight was around novermber I guess the guy needed money for the child support from that month.)
Anyway, yesterday she texted me and showed me a commercial pregnancy test she did, and it looks like she may be pregnant. We have been talking and apparently she's going to go to the doctor and ask for a profesional test.
Meanwhile, today she showed me some texts/screens of a conversation between she and the guy, and apparently the guy became an assh...le when she told him she was going to the doctor, then like a 5yo...nope, not even a 5yo kid does that, he said he wasn't scared but ask her "why she didn't told him to use protection", like if was her fault to get her pregnant. I know I know, as I was in anger with how the guy behave I told my friend she was responsible too, she had to demand this guy to use protection, I mean, I may be not very good socially in that area but it is common sense to use protection if you're going to have sex...
Anyway, at least yesterday she apologyzed to me because she know how much I care for her and didn't want me to be in this position. I just needed to let out my "rant", thanks for reading and if you want, leave your thoughts.