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Hey guys, been a while since i last come here so hope to see many familiar faces .
Anyways i have A/S and been trying to fit in but its hard. I know you all probably struggle the same and i was hoping for some aspie guidness . For example:
I found someone i truly care about and I'm trying hard to open up/make her laugh ect... Being myself will be good enough but i struggle with the anxiety and i go really quite. I don't know what to say and i cant spontaneously do stuff for fun. Like i would think of the funny stuff but its actually doing it is the problem. I am not my complete self when I'm around her, i have known her for 7 months and always been there for her. We are very close but i need to relax and be in control of my emotions. I want to be myself without any problems but I'm struggling to. This condition effects me too much, i spent years to understand it and how it effects me so i can find ways to improve. But i think i made it worse cause its drilled into my head and effects me worse. Sorry to ramble but trying to let you all know the story and think maybe some of you has been in my shoes and found a solution that works. I know i can count on you guys, and always appreciate the help given
Anyways i have A/S and been trying to fit in but its hard. I know you all probably struggle the same and i was hoping for some aspie guidness . For example:
I found someone i truly care about and I'm trying hard to open up/make her laugh ect... Being myself will be good enough but i struggle with the anxiety and i go really quite. I don't know what to say and i cant spontaneously do stuff for fun. Like i would think of the funny stuff but its actually doing it is the problem. I am not my complete self when I'm around her, i have known her for 7 months and always been there for her. We are very close but i need to relax and be in control of my emotions. I want to be myself without any problems but I'm struggling to. This condition effects me too much, i spent years to understand it and how it effects me so i can find ways to improve. But i think i made it worse cause its drilled into my head and effects me worse. Sorry to ramble but trying to let you all know the story and think maybe some of you has been in my shoes and found a solution that works. I know i can count on you guys, and always appreciate the help given