the dream

[smith2267]

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we've all had it, haven't we, aspie men?

 

[cheetoe80]

Yeah you meet a girl and it all just comes together naturally and nothing is weird. That what you're talking about? Does that happen in real life?

 

[Mike_GX1]

It happens to certain people yes. And those people will argue to the ends of the Earth that everyone is pre-destined to meet someone and that every single person has a special someone out there just waiting for them...

Well it hasn't happened to me yet - and I've put in measures to treble my chances but it still hasn't happened. I then read up somewhere recently that because asperger's has vulnerable adult status attached to it that I'm not allowed to have a partner any way and so that determines that one doesn't it. Forever single...forever saddened and forever distressed by this revelation!!! Simply born at the wrong time...

 

[Gomendosi]

"The dream" is just that, a dream, only hard work, determination, a little adaptation and being able to look at things realistically can make it a reality, sure it may work out different from the dream but life could well be sweeter and last longer than anything that any of us could imagine, but you won't know until you try... now if I could only follow my own advice, I would be out living the dream and not just dreaming of life ; ]

 

[apassingword]

I prefer when it comes with out effort, when the person makes you feel at home and at peace, when they make every effort to make you happy and you only want to do the same in return.
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