Hello to all, up until recently I didn't have a clue what Aspergers was. My boyfriends father and boyfriend believe that I have Aspergers even though they do not know anyone with the condition, they have read about it and think it describes me. I am very unsure as to whether I do or don't, I have taken various tests online and would appreciate any input from anyone.
I have done IQ tests in the past and scored between 125 and 135, my EQ was low and suggested that Aspergers would be likely, I find it difficult to empathize with others and relate to people. I did the Aspie quiz and it said 'you seem to have both neurodiverse and neurotypical traits'. My neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 103 of 200
and my neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 99 of 200. I did some facial tests, I had a go at guessing celebrity faces and got 96 percent but in another test I scored 9 out of 20 with 4 possible answers as to guessing the emotions in a face.
I researched my family history and people were stunned when I could tell them off hand every single date of birth and date of marriage in the family tree which must have been closer to 1,000 dates. I have been told that I am a little clumsy. I am double jointed and read that is linked to Hypotonia which again is linked to Aspergers. I have so many Aspie traits but many that I do not have also. I am also often told that I can be very blunt, I often offend people and I do not understand why? I am not so interested in forming friendships and have few friends. I would say that often I will notice a pattern in something.
I do not suffer with sensory overload and I am not very sensitive, loud noise bothers me no more than the next person and I am not a fussy eater. I don't like bright lights but then neither do many people without any condition. Also I have good eye contact and also I have read that so many Aspies do not understand different humour but when someone makes a joke, I may not find it funny but can more often than not see where the joke is and my humour is generally dry but conventional.
I can be repetitive in the sense I often listen to the same song 20 times over and play a game where I am just clicking multiple times but other than that generally I am just normal.
I have been told it will cost me a lot of money to get a professional diagnosis and just wondering if I should, I mean if I do not have it then it is an awful waste of money. I have also wondered if someone in my family may have it because I have also read that sometimes being close to someone then there traits can rub off on you even though you are not on the Autism spectrum yourself? One of my parents I would say displays some of the traits. Also I have read that abuse during childhood can cause certain social difficulties. My parents split when I was 3 and my mother met someone else that beat the crap out of me on a regular basis for a year which caused me a lot of trama, I don't expect any empathy just that when I was an outsider at school then I felt it was because I had experienced so many problems at home?
Any help or other people's view points on this would be greatly appreciated thank you or would be interested in anyone's story who was in a similar position?
I have done IQ tests in the past and scored between 125 and 135, my EQ was low and suggested that Aspergers would be likely, I find it difficult to empathize with others and relate to people. I did the Aspie quiz and it said 'you seem to have both neurodiverse and neurotypical traits'. My neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 103 of 200
and my neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 99 of 200. I did some facial tests, I had a go at guessing celebrity faces and got 96 percent but in another test I scored 9 out of 20 with 4 possible answers as to guessing the emotions in a face.
I researched my family history and people were stunned when I could tell them off hand every single date of birth and date of marriage in the family tree which must have been closer to 1,000 dates. I have been told that I am a little clumsy. I am double jointed and read that is linked to Hypotonia which again is linked to Aspergers. I have so many Aspie traits but many that I do not have also. I am also often told that I can be very blunt, I often offend people and I do not understand why? I am not so interested in forming friendships and have few friends. I would say that often I will notice a pattern in something.
I do not suffer with sensory overload and I am not very sensitive, loud noise bothers me no more than the next person and I am not a fussy eater. I don't like bright lights but then neither do many people without any condition. Also I have good eye contact and also I have read that so many Aspies do not understand different humour but when someone makes a joke, I may not find it funny but can more often than not see where the joke is and my humour is generally dry but conventional.
I can be repetitive in the sense I often listen to the same song 20 times over and play a game where I am just clicking multiple times but other than that generally I am just normal.
I have been told it will cost me a lot of money to get a professional diagnosis and just wondering if I should, I mean if I do not have it then it is an awful waste of money. I have also wondered if someone in my family may have it because I have also read that sometimes being close to someone then there traits can rub off on you even though you are not on the Autism spectrum yourself? One of my parents I would say displays some of the traits. Also I have read that abuse during childhood can cause certain social difficulties. My parents split when I was 3 and my mother met someone else that beat the crap out of me on a regular basis for a year which caused me a lot of trama, I don't expect any empathy just that when I was an outsider at school then I felt it was because I had experienced so many problems at home?
Any help or other people's view points on this would be greatly appreciated thank you or would be interested in anyone's story who was in a similar position?
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