Ive been dating a guy for about 7-8 months, he's on the spectrum, I'm not. Thing is, I've seen him twice in the last 3-4 months and I get the feeling he's not interested anymore. BUT, I know that just before he went really distant and went into radio silence, his workload increased at work, plus he plays in s band and has been doing loads of gigs. He came over on Thursday, why would he do that if he wasn't interested? Up til now, I've hardly seen any traits of autism, or so I though, now I'm not so sure, but then, 'y experience of autism is very limited. Could the 4 months radio silence be down to his autism? I know a lot of women would have given up and found someone else, I don't want to give up on this, he is an amazing guy and I love him to bits, I just feel like I don't know where I stand and I have no idea how to bring it up without offending him.