I have a question about aspergers, am I the only one that's attached to a wife/gf and very protective of her? Like has to be at all her dr appointments and every where she goes.
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Well you shouldn't be. Other people can help with the dr appointments and you don't have to go everywhere with her. If you want to that is fine. Personally I wouldn't. Give her some space sometimes. If you are attached to her, then great. That shows a relationship, but I wouldn't go everywhere with her u less she wants you to. This is kind of a hard question to answer in that respect. Everyone is different. Just keep that in mind when you are around her. Ask her what makes her more comfortable and do what she says. It may be that you don't have to go everywhere, but I would check. Some girls like it and others don't. Hope this helps.I have a question about aspergers, am I the only one that's attached to a wife/gf and very protective of her? Like has to be at all her dr appointments and every where she goes.
Idk why but every time I think about her going to the Dr my anxiety goes through the roof.Some folks with Asperger's and autism are very territorial and protective over their partners. Most also tend to have bad experiences with professionals and society in general. If you are worried they may do to her what they've done to you, why not go to some self-defense classes together? Then you can know she'll be fine on her own because she can kick booty if they misbehave.
I just like going everywhere with my husband because I might get to see something neat if we go out. Drives him nuts sometimes so I stay home for the boring things he wants to do by himself, like his own doctor appointments. The only reason I wanted to go to those was in case I needed to remember something he didn't. I was the reverse with my own doctors though. When I was trapped with very bad physicians, I had to have my husband with me every time. Not that either of us were allowed to do anything and sometimes they separated us, but I would not go to any appointment unless he could come. Now I have a wonderful CRNP that I don't mind visiting alone and I look forward to my appointments. I just dread it if I ever have to see another MD.
I thought I was the only one that feels that way. My wife thinks it's controlling 8 do that. But to me in my mind it's perfectly fine to her it's worst thing ever. Like I have to be with her all the time even when her and her mama go places.For some people that is normal. I am a little like that with my sister. I get anxious when she flies on airplanes alone, goes to a friends house, or goes to church without me. Not that I am scared that she will say something about me, but because I love her and want to protect her and if I can't I get nervous. It is perfectly fine to feel that way.
What are all the characteristics of it?No. You aren't the only one that feels that way. A lot of people are like that.
I mean like of aspergers, I've been diagnosed with it but half the time I don't realize I'm like thatWhat do you mean?
I mean like I talk about the same thing all the time. And like the protective parts, I've went head to head with nurses before that wouldn't let me in the back with my wife.So you want all the characteristics of AS? That is a rather long list. Please define which aspect of AS you are wanting.
I mean like I talk about the same thing all the time. And like the protective parts, I've went head to head with nurses before that wouldn't let me in the back with my wife.
I have a question about aspergers, am I the only one that's attached to a wife/gf and very protective of her? Like has to be at all her dr appointments and every where she goes.