i don't date girls, but guys... [and i am not an expert, at all] i very much agree: honesty is best. not many people are honest... however, one has to put honesty into the nice words; in such a way that they sound very nice but honest - we want to be trusted. now, if i were to be the girl to whom you have taken a liking to, i think i want to hear something that makes me special - more special than other women my age; for i want to be superior to other women who i perceive as competitors [always]. i do not want to hear that i have nice face, but i want to hear that the very special and unique detail that my face has to offer [only, if there is anything special about it! otherwise i will think you are making this up] something true [!!] that makes me stand out from the crowd in a way, that you think [truthfully] is strikingly beautiful ; in such a way that you couldn't help but commenting on it. that you say. so... if i turn of my over-imaginative imagination-machine [maybe i'm making an idiot of myself now ^^ but is seemed a lof of fun to give it try] i'd say you'd say this [online-dating] : "hey! what's up. you know you're beautiful, right? just saying... truth is, i came across your profile a few minutes ago. at first, i wasn't sure if i should send you text - no chance, i said to myself - you know, she's probably already dating someone. i mean look at her, she gorgeous. still, i couldn't help it. i decided i had to text you, not matter what, since i just felt like i wanted to tell you that you have a really beautiful face. it really has some very unique detail to it, but i'm sure you hear that every day. (she: blabla....) no? not really? oh come on, i mean i'm serious. look, i'm photographer - so naturally i see a lot of faces, so i should know , shouldn't i. listen, i`m really not making this up - i mean, why would i. in fact, you don't see features likes yours very often. as - for example - the rare and elegant shape of your slighlty outlined cheekbones. it's yet completly natural, don't get me wrong, but they appear artistic and balanced in the total of the composition. that's anything but an average face, you know. oh.. hey, i totally forgot to introduce myself (sorry! got carried away... details mean a lot to me. hope you didn't mind, though!).. i'm (...) what`s your name btw?"
you may now make fun of me =)