Dragon's Tooth
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I was wondering if there were people out there who could post about long term relationships they have had and if they have been successful (particularly the successful ones). When I was diagnosed my husband took it hard and it didn't help we found a fifty page document on the internet that said I would be an emotional invalid for the rest of my life and that the chances of success (our definition of success being until death do we part) being virtually nil. I was wondering if there are any success stories out there.
So far me and my husband are doing well, he took a few days after the diagnosis and accepted that even though I had this label it didn't really change who I was. He had been with me for nearly three years at this point and he knew what he was in for so to speak. We both realized if it had really been an issue we wouldn't have gotten married. I think now it helps my husband to understand why I might do some weird things (like I don't like letting store people look in my bag for instance) and I think it helps him to deal with my quirks.
There is a lot of negativity out there about asperger's people having successful marriages and so on so I was hoping to find some examples of positive relationships. I guess I just want to reassure myself and my husband that what a doctor decides is true for asperger's people is not necessarily true for everyone.
So far me and my husband are doing well, he took a few days after the diagnosis and accepted that even though I had this label it didn't really change who I was. He had been with me for nearly three years at this point and he knew what he was in for so to speak. We both realized if it had really been an issue we wouldn't have gotten married. I think now it helps my husband to understand why I might do some weird things (like I don't like letting store people look in my bag for instance) and I think it helps him to deal with my quirks.
There is a lot of negativity out there about asperger's people having successful marriages and so on so I was hoping to find some examples of positive relationships. I guess I just want to reassure myself and my husband that what a doctor decides is true for asperger's people is not necessarily true for everyone.