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Recent content by Whattup

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    Having a hard time getting anyone's attention

    I've taken Depakote before, but I was on Abilify for a long time, and after I had to have my gallbladder removed due to inflammation, I gained more weight faster than I ever had before. Now I'm on Rexulti, and it's much friendlier in terms of weight gain.
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    Having a hard time getting anyone's attention

    Hello. I'm female and in my early thirties, and I'm just having a hard time getting anyone to notice me in any way, including romantically. I'm straight, FYI, and even when I did get a guy's attention in my late twenties, they would never commit to me, even after three or six months of dating...
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    Losing friends

    I've had this happen all of my life. I notice that I make friends, and they really like me at first. But as time goes on, they get gradually more distant and sometimes just start avoiding me. It really hurts. We just pretty much run out of things to talk about and relate to together. I have one...
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    I'm 30! :O

    I'm 30! :O
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    Turned 30 today, no love life in sight :/

    Hey there, I am now officially a 30 year old, female Aspie, single as the day I was born! I just have a few general relationship questions for everyone. Is it easier to date another Aspie or a NT? I've only dated NT's, and I never get very emotionally close. They also never commit to me. How...
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    I can't feel love for people!

    This is exactly how I feel. I'm so sorry that your parents have past away; that's something I know will eventually come in my life, and it terrifies me!
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    Hard time finding someone with similar interests!

    Oh my gosh, thank you! I didn't bother looking on this forum, honestly :) Which doll lines do you collect? I buy Monster High and LE Disney dolls!
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    I can't feel love for people!

    I'll keep this short; aside from my relationship with my mother and brother, I don't know if or when I've felt "love" towards someone. I've had dating relationships in the past, and they all ended very nicely, no one was mad at the end. But I think that's because I don't know how to feel or...
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    Hard time finding someone with similar interests!

    Thanks for your input :) That's pretty much what I've been doing, I know what I won't compromise on vs. what would just be nice to have. Still, no luck, other than just friendly dates :/ But those are better than nothing :)
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    Hard time finding someone with similar interests!

    I'm a part of a Limited Edition Disney Doll collectors group, but people in that online group are all over the world, I've never seen anyone in my state even. I don't know why this thread popped up in the "Interests" forum, I posted it in the dating forum!
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    Hard time finding someone with similar interests!

    Hello everyone :) So I have been dating for about 3-4 years now, I'm hitting 30 in a couple of weeks as well. I've never been in a committed relationship though. Some reasons are that the guys I meet don't want to commit, they want kids, etc, but I also think they don't get as close to me...
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    Girls, how did you get a guy?

    You remind me so much of me. I have guy friends tell me that I am a complete tomboy (I'm 27) and I just recently, in the last 6 months, had the same cravings for love and intimacy. For a partner. I did online dating, and have met two really nice guys on there, one who I am currently dating...
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    Left out at work >:(

    So, I have a lot of coworkers who are civil and even friendly to me. But something has happened more than once; they talk about their plans that they have all made together, and they do not include me ever. Such as today, one guy invited two people to his birthday right in front of me. We are...
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    Ditching an unhealthy obsession, replacing it

    Hi Suzanne. Thank you for sharing your story! I've had problems with things like that as well. I don't look at it anymore, but I've not yet found something to fill the void. All I can think about is what I can't do, and I can't find much of what I can do. I'm a Christian as well, and it is so...
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    Ditching an unhealthy obsession, replacing it

    Actually, sports are only out of the question because of my achy knees. And yes, depression does sap all of the energy to do anything or enjoy anything. I always wonder if this is an issue of depression or Asperger's syndrome. I'm thinking depression.
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