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    Hey...Long time no read lol How are you?

    Hey...Long time no read lol How are you?
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    flirting in a friendship

    Update: Several days after that, she wrote on facebook that she thanks "bff tomcat" (tomcat is a nickname she gave me) for borrowing my laptop. Yeah, I guess it was more wishful thinking on my part than what was her intent. Despite that, I still enjoyed that brief moment and various other...
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    flirting in a friendship

    I suspect people are often attracted to people who seem out of their reach. The chase is appealing I guess.
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    flirting in a friendship

    My friend is funny. She apologizes to me when tied her shirt up showing her belly button because it was really hot. I told her I didn't mind. Yet when she does this, not a single smiling apology. ;)
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    flirting in a friendship

    I don't know if she was unconscious of it. She was facing me and talking to me the entire time. What got me is that she is normally modest. I also know she calls me bro sometimes and we both say "love you" before we part. I never had such a close friendship like this so far.
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    flirting in a friendship

    Just curious: If and how often do you flirt with your friends. In a dark parking lot, my best friend of three years decided to rub muscle pain crew on her shoulder. She slipped off one strap of her dress to expose her sports bra. Then as she was rubbing the cream, she would slip off then put...
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    What era would you like to live in?

    I would like to live in the Gilded Age and see how America was transforming from mostly agriculture to industrial.
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    Are friends or family members disbelieving about your ASD?

    Well I had hoped my best friend would agree with me that I am in the spectrum. There were conversations in which she did seem to concur, but there were many others where she said that I exhibit depression only. My girlfriend complete agree with me though.
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    How old is everyone? Asl

    37/m/U.S.
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    Desperately seeking answers about adult Aspergers

    Trying to figure out ASD and whether one has it, is really a journey of self discovery. I always felt like the odd one out in my family. They could easily cope with changes, had no problems with conversations with others, and had numerous friends. Me, on the other hand, always had problems...
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    Are friends or family members disbelieving about your ASD?

    I totally agree. It took me awhile to accept it myself. I know my friend will in time. She has this view of Aspergers as if everyone with Aspergers is like Rainman. I am slowly trying to help her see that Aspergers is really a spectrum.
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    Are friends or family members disbelieving about your ASD?

    For me, my best friend seems to not accept it. I think she feels that if she would accept it, I would be damaged. She cares about me, but still does not see that by denying it she refuses to see that part of me. Maybe one day she will. I won't tell my parents because they will completely...
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    Comment by 'Historianthomas' in 'Feel lonely all the time'

    Hi Kari I can see you are in a lot of pain. It is completely understandable why you feel the way you do. I am kinda in your shoes too, but older. My parents placed a lot of expectations on me. They wanted me to have a successful career in my twenties making a lot of money and living next to...
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    Thanks Sparticus! :)

    Thanks Sparticus! :)
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    How do you deal with crushes?

    All my crushes ended really badly. Either I totally misunderstood them, timing was not right, or they were not available. What was worse was how I handled them. It took me years to finally be finished with my first crush at a community college I attended. But inevitably, those crushes fell...
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