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Recent content by Dryope

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    Feeling shut out

    Of course. Though the moderator was 100% correct, of course!
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    Feeling shut out

    Thanks for your note. Yes, I 100% support the rules and the moderators' actions.
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    Core Difference with NTs: I Care More

    Well, I wish you luck. I still ended up stimming during the conversation, though (phone call). I think this is a tough skill to learn, but it may not be for everyone.
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    Core Difference with NTs: I Care More

    Mia it sounds like we could both learn a lot from Beverly. I just practiced her technique in a social situation and found it very helpful. I didn't have anything living around me, but I visualized the earth under the floor supporting me and shielding me, and that apparently triggered some sort...
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    Core Difference with NTs: I Care More

    Thanks very much. That's very similar to what therapists are trained to do, at least in the second paragraph. I appreciate your sharing this -- I'll certainly benefit from it, and hopefully others will as well.
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    Feeling shut out

    Thanks! But I'm not unhappy. I'm not complaining. I'm just trying to explain how my bottom-up thinking complicates this. I'm sorry for causing a ruckus. I have failed to communicate again somehow. I use words that seem clear, but somehow everyone has a different idea than what I'm trying to...
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    Feeling shut out

    Hm...I don't think I'm explaining myself well. The moderator is not at fault. I am. I am not defending myself at all. I clearly don't understand the rules. If I stay, I will hyperfocus on understanding them. I will spend hours reading posts here, writing lists, devising schema, and...
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    Feeling shut out

    First off, let me say: I am not complaining and I am certainly not saying a moderator did anything wrong in any way. I have nothing but respect for moderators and the hard work they do. Please do not take any offense at this whatsoever. But I rarely allow myself to communicate as an aspie --...
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    I'm having second thoughts about AC. I was told to delete a comment I viewed as innocent...

    I'm having second thoughts about AC. I was told to delete a comment I viewed as innocent venting, not hurtful. The safe feeling is gone.
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    Core Difference with NTs: I Care More

    I'm an empath, too, although I don't use that term. Seeing my close friends and family after a long time apart accelerates shutdown for me -- I can't deal with their emotions. Everything is swirling in my mind. I wish we could just shake hands and talk about politics or something. I like...
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    Married before diagnosis..?

    I have been married for over ten years and just got diagnosed. My husband says it's not Asperger's, it's a personality. And he loves my personality. Awww. But seriously -- I am not emotionally available when he wants me to be. I can't control when I am, either. And he perceives a lot of...
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    Core Difference with NTs: I Care More

    Just updating....I figured this out. This is what I'm talking about. I think it gets talked about a lot, but I just had to get to it in my own way (like everything). I just feel more. A Radical New Autism Theory - The Daily Beast 'People with Asperger’s syndrome, a high functioning form of...
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    When being "out" would be so much easier

    Yes. I don't want to put myself at the mercy of whatever definition they attach to the label. I have told psychologists in a nonclinical setting. I have to do some calculations in my mind before telling people -- and the number had better be a good one. They need to be informed, it needs to be...
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    When being "out" would be so much easier

    Yes, that's exactly what I mean. I have to gather info until my brain clicks -- and then I understand the thing and can know what to expect from it and how it works. And I usually LOVE the research process, but not when there's insufficient data. You've piqued my interest and I wish I could...
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    Clothing Preference?

    My clothing muses are: Robin Wright in "House of Cards" Cayce Pollard in "Pattern Recognition" and Timoni West's daily unform. I wear a simple black dress fitted to my body. No frills. Two inches above the knee. I plain belt if I need one. When it's a grungy day, I wear a black JCrew t-shirt...
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