Mars26
21 years old aspie
I have a problem. I return to the city where I go to college and I immediately made plans with the girl I'm dating. However, she had to postpone our meeting from Saturday to Sunday because her parents had left the city and she had to keep an eye on their house. However on Sunday, her brother could replace her. We met on Sunday and everything was great, but it turns out that yesterday, when she was keeping eye on the house, she invited her friends from high school for drinking.
I'm not sure if I should feel offended that she didn't invite me and choose meeting her friends instead of me. I think that she didn't invite me because it is her pack from high school and I would be on the sidelines because I don't know them and things between us are pretty fresh. And I think that she could "party" with her friends only on Saturday but she could meet with me every day.
But I'm not sure if she did anything wrong? I think that I don't have to always comes first to her but still I don't want to be mistreaded (if she does it of course)
I'm not sure if I should feel offended that she didn't invite me and choose meeting her friends instead of me. I think that she didn't invite me because it is her pack from high school and I would be on the sidelines because I don't know them and things between us are pretty fresh. And I think that she could "party" with her friends only on Saturday but she could meet with me every day.
But I'm not sure if she did anything wrong? I think that I don't have to always comes first to her but still I don't want to be mistreaded (if she does it of course)