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I really don't know if there's really a 'time limit' to what we get to do with our lives, unless we measure it against society's strictures. If your desire is to have a home, car and children by a certain age, then what's really left for yourself? Do you get to do the things you want to do? Or do you do what you think is expected, with no thought for whatever you really want, whatever that might be.
After all these 'rules' of society were created to keep an economy functioning, to spend and buy, to have children, to keep order in chaos. It's very much about control of the population. Anyone who deviates, including 'aspies' or doesn't contribute in the expected way, eventually will not fit in, because they think and question. Looking at all sides, measuring one thing against the other, deciding perhaps that the illusion of fitting in is just a massive trick to keep you in line.
It's interesting to note that most of the great thinkers, inventors, innovators did not fit it, they lived on the edge of society, not wanting really to be part of all the fakery. Not that I'm comparing myself to any of them, but that doesn't mean that I have to swallow the dream of socialization about what I'm supposed to be. I get to think for myself, and I get to make my own choices.
Alysha - sending well wishes.I'm a 20something trying to figure out where I am going in life: career-wise, family/lifestyle, and still trying to learn a lot about myself. Anyone else out there going through this issue right now?
I'm a 20something trying to figure out where I am going in life: career-wise, family/lifestyle, and still trying to learn a lot about myself. Anyone else out there going through this issue right now?
I'm a 20something trying to figure out where I am going in life: career-wise, family/lifestyle, and still trying to learn a lot about myself. Anyone else out there going through this issue right now?
I'm a 20something trying to figure out where I am going in life: career-wise, family/lifestyle, and still trying to learn a lot about myself. Anyone else out there going through this issue right now?
I'm at the age when my peers are getting married, having kids, and leading successful careers. Sometimes I just feel like I am significantly "behind" in life.
I totally understand your situation. I'm currently pursuing my 2nd BS in Medical Technology. I've always liked science and the human body fascinates me. I just pray that this is a career that will fit me and that I excel in the field.You're not alone. I'm in my mid-twenties and have absolutely no idea what I want to do. I'm in the middle of doing a Bachelor's degree in IT but thinking of switching to photography but am unsure if I will end up wanting to do it professionally.
I have no idea what to do with my life, at all, and it scares me.