My father in law is a special character. I always felt that he was different, had clumsy movements and I never quite understood his conversations. He is extremely socially awkward. The sad part is that he was an extremely bad husband and father. He never held one of his 3 children, or hugged any of them, or attended any of their birthdays or school events. He never took them out anywhere. He never spent his money on them and barely gave his wife enough money for food. His children had to work hard to make a living while he was living in the same house. Recently they discovered that he had a big bank account and he gave out most of his money to strangers while his sick wife doesn’t have money for her meds!!! He knows nothing about his children and he never bothers to ask. He would get bothered if someone eats one of the apples he bought!! He never bought his wife or his children any gifts. He has parkinsons now and his son is taking care of him, but he still complains that he is treated badly if his son lashes out. I don’t understand this feeling of entitlement while he never provided anything in return. His son does lash out but it is an accumulation of resentment and feeling under appreciated by his dad. He put a huge emotional toll on his whole family, keeping in mind that his wife was pretty much forced to marry him, and doesnt love him, but still treats him extremely well.