ems
Well-Known Member
Ok.
I have managed to lose 2 hired home helps in less than 6 months due to not being able to be normal.
I cannot either:
A. Treat them like a stranger, aloof, reserved and distant
B. Stop being all or nothing about it.
I instantly make up my mind that I can either trust the person or not, bring them full pelt into my world, no social filter, tell all my secrets, get very close, then just when the bond seems unbreakable, it breaks.
From them breaking it. Not me. My problem is I'm also far too nice and loving and reluctant to see when I'm being walked over.
I have managed to lose 2 hired home helps in less than 6 months due to not being able to be normal.
I cannot either:
A. Treat them like a stranger, aloof, reserved and distant
B. Stop being all or nothing about it.
I instantly make up my mind that I can either trust the person or not, bring them full pelt into my world, no social filter, tell all my secrets, get very close, then just when the bond seems unbreakable, it breaks.
From them breaking it. Not me. My problem is I'm also far too nice and loving and reluctant to see when I'm being walked over.