I thought it might be useful to share techniques any of us use to cope with eye-contact.
Here are a few things I do:
1) lots of little glimpses
Rather than prolonged eye contact, I look briefly in their eyes, then look away, then back, etc.
2) look at other parts of the face.
Just above or below the eyes, bridge of the nose, etc.
3) focus on the eyeball
This is the one I find most useful. I forget about "eye-contact", looking into someone's soul, personal connection, intimacy or anything like that. Instead, I just look at someone's eyeball.
4) imagine they have a glass eye
This is just like the one above, but it's even easier if I imagine I'm looking at a glass eye.
5) look through their eyes
However, some people seem to notice this.
Anything else you do?
Here are a few things I do:
1) lots of little glimpses
Rather than prolonged eye contact, I look briefly in their eyes, then look away, then back, etc.
2) look at other parts of the face.
Just above or below the eyes, bridge of the nose, etc.
3) focus on the eyeball
This is the one I find most useful. I forget about "eye-contact", looking into someone's soul, personal connection, intimacy or anything like that. Instead, I just look at someone's eyeball.
4) imagine they have a glass eye
This is just like the one above, but it's even easier if I imagine I'm looking at a glass eye.
5) look through their eyes
However, some people seem to notice this.
Anything else you do?
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