Whattup
Well-Known Member
Hello. I'm female and in my early thirties, and I'm just having a hard time getting anyone to notice me in any way, including romantically. I'm straight, FYI, and even when I did get a guy's attention in my late twenties, they would never commit to me, even after three or six months of dating me. They just wanted to keep dating aimlessly.
It's just hard. I don't consider myself an unattractive woman, but I feel invisible. I was on some dating websites for years, and I keep my profile pictures up to date. No one will return my messages though. And I get maybe one message a month!
It's just frustrating. I take some medications that have caused me to gain some weight, but I see women who are much heavier than myself in relationships, and I can't even get a date. I'm happy for them, but it saddens me that I can't even get a date anymore. I've never had a guy want to call me his girlfriend. Ever.
I guess I'm afraid I'm going to hit forty in several years and still be single! It's embarrassing, and the older I get, the more the dating pool narrows.
Now I'm dealing with health issues. I just wonder if I'll ever get married. It's depressing to think about, because I want that companionship. If I could find it with friends, I wouldn't be so concerned, but I don't have friends either.
Who has actually found someone who loves them, knowing about their AS? Is there anyone here who has additional chronic physical problems who has found love?
Thanks.
It's just hard. I don't consider myself an unattractive woman, but I feel invisible. I was on some dating websites for years, and I keep my profile pictures up to date. No one will return my messages though. And I get maybe one message a month!
It's just frustrating. I take some medications that have caused me to gain some weight, but I see women who are much heavier than myself in relationships, and I can't even get a date. I'm happy for them, but it saddens me that I can't even get a date anymore. I've never had a guy want to call me his girlfriend. Ever.
I guess I'm afraid I'm going to hit forty in several years and still be single! It's embarrassing, and the older I get, the more the dating pool narrows.
Now I'm dealing with health issues. I just wonder if I'll ever get married. It's depressing to think about, because I want that companionship. If I could find it with friends, I wouldn't be so concerned, but I don't have friends either.
Who has actually found someone who loves them, knowing about their AS? Is there anyone here who has additional chronic physical problems who has found love?
Thanks.