Matthew Hendrickson
Active Member
Hi everyone,
I have a friend who's getting married in a couple months and he just asked me today if I'd be one of his Groomsmen. This is something I've only been asked once before by a friend, and that time I couldn't make it because of distance. I'm not one for being in front of crowds, especially when it's a lot of people I don't know. I get really anxious in front of a lot of people, even if the focus isn't on me. Does anyone have any hints on how to keep from having a major incident during the wedding? The last wedding where I was part of the wedding party was my sister's wedding, so at least I had a lot of family around, but here, all I have are friends, and only a few know I'm Autistic. Fortunately, 2 friends are also part of the wedding party, and another is the groom. In the coming months, I'm thinking of talking to the other groomsmen who know, and see if they can help me during the downtime to unwind so I don't get so overloaded I need to step out during a part of the reception where I need to be in there.
I have a friend who's getting married in a couple months and he just asked me today if I'd be one of his Groomsmen. This is something I've only been asked once before by a friend, and that time I couldn't make it because of distance. I'm not one for being in front of crowds, especially when it's a lot of people I don't know. I get really anxious in front of a lot of people, even if the focus isn't on me. Does anyone have any hints on how to keep from having a major incident during the wedding? The last wedding where I was part of the wedding party was my sister's wedding, so at least I had a lot of family around, but here, all I have are friends, and only a few know I'm Autistic. Fortunately, 2 friends are also part of the wedding party, and another is the groom. In the coming months, I'm thinking of talking to the other groomsmen who know, and see if they can help me during the downtime to unwind so I don't get so overloaded I need to step out during a part of the reception where I need to be in there.