Today, I did it! I was driving. Petrified, I must say and cried. Chap drove me around the car park so I could watch him and then, something showing on my face, prompted him to ask if I preferred my husband next to me and I smiled and said that I would, much to hubby's horror but really, for an experienced driver, who had just put up 2,000 euros, in case of damage to car, and not a driving instructor, he did really well. Just shouted a few times, for me to slow down, get in the middle and use my indicators, but he was quick to commend me too.
I was a mess and honestly nearly gave up. How can I look out of 3 mirrors, regulate the excellerater, keep an eye on hazards, all in one go? Hubby says that I have to make one action like second nature, which I do agree. But wow talk about scary, when other drivers are indicating or not.
We got the money back and thus, I did not crash and even, surprised hubby when we came upon an issue ie roadworks and I saw immediately, the arrow and easily drove around and that rather I pressed him but I ruined it, on coming back and tried to go around the roundabout and in the end, we swapped places so he could get us out.
I want to give up, I shall not deny that, but I see that I need more practise and thus, going to phone an instructor and hope he speaks English and have some lessons.
It was awful because I kept forgetting to look out of the windows, because of concentrating on the speed, or looking out of windows and forgetting my speed. And so forth.
So, how did my aspie friends fair who can't multi task? Is there hope for me?
One great thing was me concentrating or concerned so much, that I did not care or bothered when I upset other drivers or saw people looking at me. When danger is so close, having people stare, really didn't bother me.
I am going to practise with pen and paper, how to get the car models moving. Did achieve it, but very jerky.
I was a mess and honestly nearly gave up. How can I look out of 3 mirrors, regulate the excellerater, keep an eye on hazards, all in one go? Hubby says that I have to make one action like second nature, which I do agree. But wow talk about scary, when other drivers are indicating or not.
We got the money back and thus, I did not crash and even, surprised hubby when we came upon an issue ie roadworks and I saw immediately, the arrow and easily drove around and that rather I pressed him but I ruined it, on coming back and tried to go around the roundabout and in the end, we swapped places so he could get us out.
I want to give up, I shall not deny that, but I see that I need more practise and thus, going to phone an instructor and hope he speaks English and have some lessons.
It was awful because I kept forgetting to look out of the windows, because of concentrating on the speed, or looking out of windows and forgetting my speed. And so forth.
So, how did my aspie friends fair who can't multi task? Is there hope for me?
One great thing was me concentrating or concerned so much, that I did not care or bothered when I upset other drivers or saw people looking at me. When danger is so close, having people stare, really didn't bother me.
I am going to practise with pen and paper, how to get the car models moving. Did achieve it, but very jerky.