Tonight... Followed my nose (via a Facebook suggestion) to an event a poet friend of mine was involved with. It was some sort of open mic, I wanted to get out of the house for awhile anyway. It turned out to be an open mic for people with mental illness, it seemed good.
The awkward part, thankfully brief, was the break between performers with everyone milling around the small cafe, voices jumbled together. I didn't know anyone except my friend who was the MC, and she was busy with other tasks, we only talked very briefly.
Eventually I spent most of the break time outside, where the ceiling wasn't quite so low My friend encouraged everyone to meet someone new on the break, I felt so awkward I didn't meet that quota.
I had a similar situation at a church function on Good Friday a couple of months ago, after the service everyone was invited to the snack room, low ceiling, voices jumbled together. Even knowing a few people in the crowd I just wanted out of there! I only stayed briefly.
I've always been like this in similar rooms, why I often have trouble going to pubs, even though that is such a standard place for people to mingle in western society, that low ceiling again, among other reasons.
The awkward part, thankfully brief, was the break between performers with everyone milling around the small cafe, voices jumbled together. I didn't know anyone except my friend who was the MC, and she was busy with other tasks, we only talked very briefly.
Eventually I spent most of the break time outside, where the ceiling wasn't quite so low My friend encouraged everyone to meet someone new on the break, I felt so awkward I didn't meet that quota.
I had a similar situation at a church function on Good Friday a couple of months ago, after the service everyone was invited to the snack room, low ceiling, voices jumbled together. Even knowing a few people in the crowd I just wanted out of there! I only stayed briefly.
I've always been like this in similar rooms, why I often have trouble going to pubs, even though that is such a standard place for people to mingle in western society, that low ceiling again, among other reasons.