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  1. Thursday

    I have a profound eye contact problem

    I do that too. Unconsciously, people try to mimic the actions of those they want to get along with...so it makes sense that even NTs will pick up on some of our habits. Us aspies being more reserved in general adds to the interest of those around us. For me, what works is I look at their eyes...
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    what things that you do are unique to you?

    My sense of smell is overactive so I can tell if someone is cooking from three floors down, with doors and windows closed. If it’s familiar, I might even be able to guess what kind of dish it is. I also have an autoimmune disorder which makes my blood sticky so it clots fast when I get injured...
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    The Undateables came back again last night (in the UK)

    Ah, The Undateables. I’ve come across the series recently and so far, it’s been entertaining. I especially liked the one about the girl with narcolepsy and cataplexy — she handles it with humor (granted, she can’t laugh too hard or she’ll faint!). It’s nice to see her supported by her friends...
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    Aspies Central Will Be Changing Names Soon

    In the end, like I said, I'm just one member. Perhaps I'm just slow to change, I'm sorry I can't keep up as well as you. I did say I was going to give it a chance, not to "beat feet" or so on. I was just honest and I thought AC is place that can accept that. If it is unwelcome, or if my...
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    Spectrum adults coping with childhood trauma caused by others

    I had the good fortune of not being bullied in school, or at least, not in any capacity I couldn't handle. However, my uncle molested me when he was tasked to be my baby sitter when I was about 6. 1. As an adult, how do you cope with that? So many life experiences have piled up since then...
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    Aspies Central Will Be Changing Names Soon

    While I'm glad for the continuous efforts to improve the site, I'm anxious about the change. As it is, AC is already so great with regards to the features and, more importantly, audience. Like others here, it's my one safe haven. Focusing on inclusivity may end up alienating some members. It's...
  7. Thursday

    Dealing with loneliness.

    Hi Marcus. :) I have these urges too. For me, it stems from my inherent distrust of the world...at times, the world seems shallow and it just doesn't jive with my set of values. However, I'm trying to look at it from another perspective. If I value these traits of mine and believe...
  8. Thursday

    Empathy

    @Eruva Thank you for this post, seriously. I've been wondering about empathy myself as I am able to recognize when someone is in need and am even affected to the point where I want to cry when they're crying, but as for comforting them, I feel that my methods tend to be robotic. I'm a good...
  9. Thursday

    Any other writers out there? If so...

    Just to add to your suggestions, I found coffee, when used sparingly, helps with the mood and kickstarts creativity too. The reason why it doesn't work for many people is because they've already reached their limits and drink it too much, too often. I stumbled across this video before and found...
  10. Thursday

    Asperger's - Hard to Keep Friends

    Thank you Erin, that means a lot to me. I hope you find a friend who is deserving of your sincerity as well. I love how you mentioned your pug, that made me smile! I have two cats and when the world seems to be kicking my behind, they're the easiest to ask for comfort. Anyway, I appreciate what...
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    4 Hour Melt-Down/Crying Fit

    Oh no...Nicole, I'm so sorry to hear that...I get upset when someone even just gives my favorite books a dog ear or a crease on the spine so I can't imagine how it feels like to lose one completely. I know that you've spent a lot of time to hunt down those pieces and each one is precious. :(...
  12. Thursday

    Could my new boyfriend also be an Aspie?

    Hi Jet, congrats! :D I'm not sure we can tell this early in the relationship as we, like NTs, tend to put in extra effort to be our very best in the beginning. The fact that he has gotten along with his aspie friend may point towards yes as naturally getting along with us does take quite an...
  13. Thursday

    Asperger's - Hard to Keep Friends

    Yes, it's hard for me to maintain a friendship -- usually because of my private meltdowns. That's to say, they do something, I feel like a doormat or a punching bag, and then I just leave things pleasant, not bothering to try opening up again or initiating communications. Although I do have...
  14. Thursday

    Anniversaries are dumb

    Hey, I think it's great that there's even a discussion about it. It's better than talking about the weather! But really, I learned new things here so I'm glad you opened the topic. I never understood that part about extravagance myself. I'm thinking that the people who equate celebrations only...
  15. Thursday

    As One on the Autism Spectrum, Do You Have Barriers that Seem to Stop You?

    Oh, count me in! Still looking for the ASD life hack that'll help with the physical reactions. I can analyze and plan without issues, but carrying them out? Someone, somewhere must like cranking up extra hard mode.
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