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Recent content by NiniS29

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    Asperger and long distance communication

    I thank you a lot for your thoughts. I had a lot time to think lately and I also thought he never was big in talking it doesn’t seem a thing he is comfortable with and I had some arguments in the past not knowing. He rarely does he might did once or twice . But he wants immediately if you...
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    Asperger and long distance communication

    That is true it is one way both working or no one. And what you say is totally correct, I’m not trying to fix him anymore I let him be him and it seems to work now for me that way and I feel happier and also he is becoming better. I had to understand his autism because it was a problem when we...
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    Asperger and long distance communication

    I know what you mean it sounds one sided because it is every time like this when he is with interests and he can goe days like that. He also doesn’t really goe out or such. I am happy with myself and I have a great family thankful but that doesn’t mean a relationship should make you feel not...
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    Asperger and long distance communication

    A hello to everyone and I hope you are all well due to current situations. I had a thought basically awhile ago but it came into my mind again today . Since I am currently in a long distance relationship right now for a while longer and since we can’t see each other so much. I relay mostly...
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    How doe you make your relationships work?!

    That is the point and the problem . I just want him to say hello so I know he is ok even when he is busy. But he doesn’t understand especially when he is busy he gets confused but he is trying . My ideal might not be what he gets and I should also tell him that I don’t mean I want to talk all...
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    How doe you make your relationships work?!

    Thank you very much and your right. But sometimes like today I feel like something is missing and I don’t know . Like is he even thinking of me. At the moment he is super mega focused on music and producing and he didn’t talk much. He just said it after I asked why he doesn’t reply like usually...
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    How doe you make your relationships work?!

    Thank you. I’m sure he thinks the same way around the autism stuff. . He doesn’t like labels and he really is always there for me in wich way he ever can or remembers things or helps first thing. So he is a great guy and I told him that I wish he could see himself that way because he once said...
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    How doe you make your relationships work?!

    Plus also a save word would make sense and would be good if he accepts that this feelings come from autism. So the point is he is not ready to accept that what he clearly is and his words were whatever you call it it’s me and my brain who always Ben like that. I’m not sick (wich i never said by...
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    How doe you make your relationships work?!

    That is quite a good idea. I didn’t say anything to him about but I thought I should adress at some point because of him obviously because he seems to feel uncomfortable and does it just for me for the sake of I see couples doe this so I know you expect it from me wich is not true. Especially...
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    How doe you make your relationships work?!

    That is such a great idea. Because I feel like he had some very bad past he couldn’t let goe. Because when he decided we should try to move together even he wasn’t sure because of the lack of space when it was time he freaked out and he screamed at me you will hurt me like my ex or when we move...
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    How doe you make your relationships work?!

    That is a good idea but the last time I tried to write him something he seemed to say he can’t process it and I’m made no sense to him. Wich made me also understand that the Most Time he just didn’t get me and miss understood it. But also he seems to be ashamed about the touch stuff and gets...
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    How doe you make your relationships work?!

    yea the touch thing have seemed to became worse since awhile at least I didn’t notice that it was that bad befor. He really seems not comfortable mostly with it and for me it looks like he is ashamed to tell me wich also maked him freak out lately when it did. came to any intimacy and he got...
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    How doe you make your relationships work?!

    That’s a great advice because I noticed a shut down when it comes to feeling or relationships ship stuff. He had two abusive once befor me aswell so he never lived with anyone and excepted the worst . And parents got divorced very young plus his dad left her mum alone with very young kids with...
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    How doe you make your relationships work?!

    Also that is important I have a lot of don’ts I care across what I did and now I could shake my head because I didn’t think sooner or it would have spared us both so much pain.
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    How doe you make your relationships work?!

    thank you very much what you said seems very fitting thought. i once made the mistake in the past you know when there is a issue and I swallowed All the feelings to a point where I said it out and it ended in a overload . Wich i didn’t understand back than. You are right with the writing...
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