I know we can annoy NTs just beings ourselves (non masked), and I know Aspies can vary widely (if you know one - you know one), so how often would a group of non masking Aspies annoy each other?
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I am annoyed that you even asked...!...so how often would a group of non masking Aspies annoy each other?
Yeah, I guess as an older, I was factoring that in a bit too much, or it would have been obvious. There is a support group not terribly far away, and I was tinkering with the idea of attending. But a support group is still a group, and I have always avoided groups when practicable. And I saw a movie that featured an HFA support group that bickered frequently at their meetings. I wondered if that was realistic.Ideally (as we get older), we learn to factor in the world's blatant refusal to align with our expectations.
Yes.I know we can annoy NTs just beings ourselves (non masked), and I know Aspies can vary widely (if you know one - you know one), so how often would a group of non masking Aspies annoy each other?
Also this is a really good point as well. If I’m doing an infodump on South Park to my irl autistic friend (she has a differing opinion on the show than me, which is OK as people are allowed to have opinions. I don’t like Rick and Morty/family guy myself.) she may not get the chance to infodump about her special interests, which pertain to her irl experiences/her experiences getting in touch with her faith.Someone gets too carried away with infodumping and forgets to take turns and let others talk/share as well
I prefer what’s morally right over social boundaries. But I don’t understand your example. Others have taken ‘garage’ to mean a mechanic’s place of business, whereas I take it to mean a parking structure.No disrespect, but yes.
A lot of Aspies have the honesty attitude that annoys me, where they prefer what's morally right over social boundaries. I don't have this.
For example, there's a colleague at work who smokes inside the garage, sometimes with the door closed if it's cold outside. There's a no smoking sign in the garage but he does it anyway. I'm totally against smoking, but I still don't care that he smokes inside and I wouldn't report him for it. Most Aspies would argue that I should report him for all our safety but I think it's better to just butt out. The garage has a very high ceiling with plenty of ventilation to avoid breathing in toxic fumes, so it's almost impossible to smell or even see the cigarette smoke. And he's my friend, and I don't tell on friends.
One way to be socially accepted at work is to not worship rules too much and to not go reporting people even if you think it's morally right, as people won't like you if you do.
His statement was to the effect "it seems a dash of autism is necessary for scientific advancement" or something very similar. Of course it was in German, so not word-for-word regardless. I like Temple Grandin's comment about the spear not being invented by the yahoos socializing around the fire, but by the wierd loner sitting in the back of the cave by himself.Not a historian. Wasn’t it Asperger who concluded that, troublesome as they may be, autistic people in general are healthy for a society? That having a disassociated eye can correct course for those stuck with NT-vision?
I know of two personally. One is my friend of 50+ years, and the other I knew in the 1980s and 90s who left the area around 2003 or so. None of us knew we were autistic till recently.I’ve only met one person who I know to be diagnosed autistic.